ChristaNL you are BANNED for the following reasons, 1 you speak 3 languages whereas I struggle with one & nobody likes a showoff! 2 Iām an old lady now & it is way past my bedtime and 3 yes my East End London granny was tough as nails & would totally kick your butt! Oh yair and that horsey stuff works for me with cranky difficult little birds too, I grab āem & cuddle āem even when theyāre like āoh mum lay off will ya!ā just to remind them Iāll always love āem & will still be there when they calm down, although I wouldnāt try it with anything bigger than a Quaker!