Betrisher
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- Jun 3, 2013
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- Parrots
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I think it would be a huge shame for you to give up Peeko after the progress you have made with him! I also think it's not fair to call yourself an inexperienced parrot owner. You appear to have gained valuable experience with Peeko and it's working for you. I'm wondering if the following might be useful?
'Dad, I know the bird is an inconvenience to you and Mrs Blodgett. I'll do as much as I can to avoid problems for you both. However, he's a work in progress and I'm trying very hard to make him into a worthwhile pet. This has become very important to me and I'd hate to quit in the middle of the project. Can you think of any way I can continue this work without causing too much conflict? Please Dad! It would mean a great deal to me as I really want to see this project out to the end.'
In addition, work really fast to teach Peeko some cute, clever tricks like 'fetch' or 'spin' or 'put it away'. If your parents can see the bird improving and becoming engaging because of your fine work, it might sway their opinion. Also, you need to work specifically on his biting problem (that's not cute and it's hard for parents to love a bird that attempts to eat them). When you offer him your hand (Peeko, not your Dad), ball your fist and stretch the skin tight and offer the back of your hand. It's harder for him to bite that. With practice, you can get very good at avoiding a bite that way. Once Peeko learns his bite doesn't work, he'll eventually forget to do it. It takes a little while, but it works. You can also offer him a stick (eg. chop stick) to fill his beak with so it won't be full of your flesh. If you can get him used to sitting on your hand and being shamelessly fed treats (bits of sunflower seed or dried papaya etc), he'll learn very quickly not to bite the hand that feeds him.
Finally, you should say to Mrs Blodgett that you've researched the notion of setting the bird free and found that it's quite illegal! Not only is it cruel to the bird, who would die a grisly death of starvation or being killed by a hawk, but it goes against conservation principles of freeing exotic wildlife. (This may not be entirely true, but your Mrs Blodgett doesn't sound exactly like a well-informed, rational citizen.)
I hope you can make it work for yourself and Peeko. You deserve to get a well-rounded bird out of all the work you've done and are prepared to do. Best of luck with it and *do* let us know how things pan out!
'Dad, I know the bird is an inconvenience to you and Mrs Blodgett. I'll do as much as I can to avoid problems for you both. However, he's a work in progress and I'm trying very hard to make him into a worthwhile pet. This has become very important to me and I'd hate to quit in the middle of the project. Can you think of any way I can continue this work without causing too much conflict? Please Dad! It would mean a great deal to me as I really want to see this project out to the end.'
In addition, work really fast to teach Peeko some cute, clever tricks like 'fetch' or 'spin' or 'put it away'. If your parents can see the bird improving and becoming engaging because of your fine work, it might sway their opinion. Also, you need to work specifically on his biting problem (that's not cute and it's hard for parents to love a bird that attempts to eat them). When you offer him your hand (Peeko, not your Dad), ball your fist and stretch the skin tight and offer the back of your hand. It's harder for him to bite that. With practice, you can get very good at avoiding a bite that way. Once Peeko learns his bite doesn't work, he'll eventually forget to do it. It takes a little while, but it works. You can also offer him a stick (eg. chop stick) to fill his beak with so it won't be full of your flesh. If you can get him used to sitting on your hand and being shamelessly fed treats (bits of sunflower seed or dried papaya etc), he'll learn very quickly not to bite the hand that feeds him.
Finally, you should say to Mrs Blodgett that you've researched the notion of setting the bird free and found that it's quite illegal! Not only is it cruel to the bird, who would die a grisly death of starvation or being killed by a hawk, but it goes against conservation principles of freeing exotic wildlife. (This may not be entirely true, but your Mrs Blodgett doesn't sound exactly like a well-informed, rational citizen.)
I hope you can make it work for yourself and Peeko. You deserve to get a well-rounded bird out of all the work you've done and are prepared to do. Best of luck with it and *do* let us know how things pan out!
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