Hi everyone, Iāve been researching cockatiels and conures and many other parrots for about 3 years now. Iāve been obsessed with birds, and Iāve always wanted one. Iām finally getting one this year and Iām very prepared to absolutely spoil my bird like crazy and pamper it. My problem is that I canāt choose between cockatiels or conures. If I got a cockatiel, I would try for it to be male. If I got a conure, Iām not sure which gender I would prefer. I do have allergies, so before I make any final decisions Iām going to a breederās place to hang out with cockatiels all day to make sure Iām not allergic. I want a bird who will be goofy, playful, and cuddly. I would like it if it whistled or talked or something, but that isnāt a need. It just needs to have a fun personality. I want to be able to put a harness on it and take it places, too. Now, I know every bird is different, but in everyoneās experience, which would you prefer and why? Or what are the pros and cons of each that you have experienced? Thank you!