I’ve called Gil a few times for advice and spoke to him at length. He and his wife have dedicated over 50 years of their lives to birds and I’ve learned so much from speaking with him. I wish he’d write a book or do a podcast! If I didn’t have anyone I trusted to take care of my birds I’d give them to Gil and his wife at Ruffle feathers Rescue and sanctuary. This is a big decision - google them and really think about it. Pretend you already made the decision and see how you feel. You know your birds best. All my interactions with Ruffled Feathers/Gil has been all positive.
Is there an option to volunteer? This way you can still see your birds and maybe help other birds?
Please understand ive been trying to rehome my guys for over a year and i understand its not easy to find a home im comfortable with, and ive ran into countless flakes loons and out right scammers,
I spoke to gil about 2 hours one night and i agree he seems to know his stuff when it comes to parrots,
I have nervious issues, OCD, ADD, panic etc and im very detailed minded, and some questions i asked gil became very long in reply and a few things i believe would raise red flags so im sharing it here to get other opinions as im not without flaws.
The so called "sanctuaries" i have come across were all more a case of bird horders who want the person who needs to rehome their birds pay them very large fees in other words they want someone else to support their habit of bird hording,
A lot of folks in my situation cannot afford to pay 1000s to rehome their birds.
Gil assured me that there were no fees, donations are great and he also assured me my birds wouldnt be adopted out but rather live at RFs.
Ruffled feathers is moving here to fl about 30 miles from me which sounded perfect a dream come true but then i ask about stopping by to see my birds settled in,
And No, i didnt mean i wanted to sit and play with my birds for hours i just wanted to briefly see the place and see my birds in it.
Gils reply was long to the point of feeling convoluted to me but the jist i got is no, i can never visit the center to see it and i cannot ever see my birds there, he said pethaps at a future date he would meet me somewhere with my birds and i could visit them that way,
I tried to explain what i desired wasnt a play visit i just wanted to see the place and my birds in it and the impression i got since the answer was vauge was no, i can never come see the place,
I find this a pretty big red flag, i will fully admit i might have gotten confused with gils reply to me.
He said they would provide pictures and video of my birds there but he never seemed to understand that i want to see the place first hand.
How would i know if they even have a place here or that my birds are even there and not adopted out ( sold ).
Keep in mind in pa they had a mall store people would go in see birds and even hold them, things seem to be changing for the fl location although i do not clearly know why.
In addiction i cant even drop my birds off at the center i would have to meet gil in a parking lot or park, this doesnt sound a bit odd to you? Im i the only one who would desire to see their birds new home?
So a few weeks back i asked for pictures of the florida center, i realize they are in the process of moving all they birds down from up north and the fl location is under construction but still a few pictures is all i asked for.
I was told to wait until "spring" for them to be able to meet my comfort assurances i needed. What i needed was to see there really is a fl center.
I hit him today asking what time frame he thinks we are talking about.
Littleredbeak, please understand i thought and still hope RFs is the answer but at this moment its feeling very iffy,
If i understand your experences with RFs you were not trying to rehome birds so perhaps gil wore different hats in his talking to us,
My birds are in need its not an emergency but urgent and i feel i was blown off in a way.