I brought the Rbird home and had him on my shoulder all night as I sat against a wall... the cage wasn't to be delivered until tomorrow. NO, of course, I couldn't leave him at the bird store until the nnext day!  By the next morning, we were in love.  Since then, I have let him do anything he wants.  I didn't have Parrot Forums back in those days, so I "winged" it, and badly.  He's a complete monster now, but he does love me.