I have a serious possibly stupid question. I have a pineapple gc conure that I've had for about 8 years and for the most part he's nice, we get along, I've had him since he was a baby so I've observed his behavior change from being an infant to an adult and some things I understand, others I don't. Some things are very clear - maybe I have a coffee, he sees it and scurries toward me and leans forward kind of vibrating his wings. After doing this many times I once gave him a sip of coffee and he liked it and kinda danced around, then carried on with his toys and foraging dish and whatever else. Like that's obviously interest in something I have and excitement for being involved or introduced to it. Other things I don't get. Maybe I don't know as much a birds as I think I do and someone can help me out here. For the sake of the visual his cage is not higher than me, it's about eye level. When he comes out of his cage he's fine with stepping up if he's at the door/climbing up the bars or he wants to get to his second "gym" cage but when he's of top of his cage and I present my hand in any way he attacks it. I mean literally attack he'll grab my finger/wrist/forearm whatever he can get and rip into it, biting, causing bleeding. If he's on top of his gym cage, which is lower than eye level, he does the same thing. If he's anywhere else on his cages he'll usually accept my hand when I hold it out but if he's on top of either cage he does not want my hand anywhere near him or the top of the cage. He has dishes and forage tunnels I've built and a bird bath dish I have to clean and refill/switch over so this kind of drives me nuts, trying to evade his viciousness by either getting a branch and moving him with that or trying to keep his attention while I get the dish.
He does this in his cage also. If I'm filling or cleaning his food or water dishes he doesn't care, but if I put my arm in his cage for any other reason like to unscrew a toy he'll specifically seek out my hand/arm and attack me. Am I making him angry or is he really cage territorial? Have I done something wrong? When he was a baby he didn't care it was just in the last couple years this became an increasing issue where today I was off work and we had a great day. I made him a couple toys and forage dishes/toys. He was calling to birds outside, he has some puzzle toys he was going to town on, a little later were chilling out he's relaxing on a branch in his cage and I put my hand in his cage(not fast or threateningly, just casual) to remove a toy with fruit/food all over it and his personality flipped. He lunged and grappled my arm, ripping and tearing at me for about 6 seconds straight, didn't break the skin but it was really vicious and very, very painful. I didn't react at all and I try my hardest not to when he's done any biting, I just went still for a second and when he stopped and went back to his branch continued what I was doing and took the skewer out.
Am I stupid and completely invading his personal space or his he overly cage territorial? I've looked online but all the scenarios are different. Should I stop putting my actual arm/hand in his cage when he's in there, save for changing food and water, and let him come on a perch instead (which he gladly jumps on because he knows he's coming out)? Or is he possessive of his cage and angry at my hand/arm for entering his personal space, and if that's the case, what can I do to really actually fix this? I would never sell him or get rid of him. If I had to accept he's just being agressive of his space, so be it, but I do love him terribly and it depresses me badly when he hurts me and it makes me feel like I'm failing. It really bums me out because some days I question if he just tolerates but actually fears/hates me, and some days I read to him and play music and we have a great time. I have a really demanding job and went from 5/6 days a week at my job to 4 days so I could spend more time with him I really care about his wellbeing but there are days I actually think he genuinely hates me and my coworkers/friends/family don't understand. Most people I know think it's a living decoration and if it screams or bites they say "time to get rid of it". I know people here dont think that. If there's anyone here who can give me some guidance or clarity I would really appreciate it.
I apologize if this isn't the right category for this. I'm on mobile sorry if my format and spelling are awful
Edit: this is an increasingly prevalent behavior that hasn't been present before, just in the last year and a 1/2, growing. I don't wanna be afraid to handle him. He loves to be petted and scritched, taken out of his cage, etc, it's like when my arm/hand comes in unsuspected he gets really possessive and angry of his space
He does this in his cage also. If I'm filling or cleaning his food or water dishes he doesn't care, but if I put my arm in his cage for any other reason like to unscrew a toy he'll specifically seek out my hand/arm and attack me. Am I making him angry or is he really cage territorial? Have I done something wrong? When he was a baby he didn't care it was just in the last couple years this became an increasing issue where today I was off work and we had a great day. I made him a couple toys and forage dishes/toys. He was calling to birds outside, he has some puzzle toys he was going to town on, a little later were chilling out he's relaxing on a branch in his cage and I put my hand in his cage(not fast or threateningly, just casual) to remove a toy with fruit/food all over it and his personality flipped. He lunged and grappled my arm, ripping and tearing at me for about 6 seconds straight, didn't break the skin but it was really vicious and very, very painful. I didn't react at all and I try my hardest not to when he's done any biting, I just went still for a second and when he stopped and went back to his branch continued what I was doing and took the skewer out.
Am I stupid and completely invading his personal space or his he overly cage territorial? I've looked online but all the scenarios are different. Should I stop putting my actual arm/hand in his cage when he's in there, save for changing food and water, and let him come on a perch instead (which he gladly jumps on because he knows he's coming out)? Or is he possessive of his cage and angry at my hand/arm for entering his personal space, and if that's the case, what can I do to really actually fix this? I would never sell him or get rid of him. If I had to accept he's just being agressive of his space, so be it, but I do love him terribly and it depresses me badly when he hurts me and it makes me feel like I'm failing. It really bums me out because some days I question if he just tolerates but actually fears/hates me, and some days I read to him and play music and we have a great time. I have a really demanding job and went from 5/6 days a week at my job to 4 days so I could spend more time with him I really care about his wellbeing but there are days I actually think he genuinely hates me and my coworkers/friends/family don't understand. Most people I know think it's a living decoration and if it screams or bites they say "time to get rid of it". I know people here dont think that. If there's anyone here who can give me some guidance or clarity I would really appreciate it.
I apologize if this isn't the right category for this. I'm on mobile sorry if my format and spelling are awful
Edit: this is an increasingly prevalent behavior that hasn't been present before, just in the last year and a 1/2, growing. I don't wanna be afraid to handle him. He loves to be petted and scritched, taken out of his cage, etc, it's like when my arm/hand comes in unsuspected he gets really possessive and angry of his space
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