Hi all! Sorry for the delay in updating! One week was my birthday and sister's birthday, one week was out of state, and came back with a week of stomach flu! But I'm back with a few updates I thought I'd share. And I hope you are all doing well!!!!!!
So Clover is about 2 and a half months old now. What a handful she is lol so intensely hyper. She is a funny curious baby! Her eyes are beginning to turn red since she is getting bigger
Awh! Already checking her out huh
Good for him age isn't as big of a deal in the bird world...
Will you keep the thread updated with their progress?
As for Clover AND Merlin. At first it was rough. My temporary cage was directly next to his cage which was good so that they were endlessly around each other.
Then I began to slowly introduce. (I SUPERVISED EVERY SINGLE TIME THEY WERE TOGETHER. So VERY important.) So Clover loves toys and Merlin has way more since that's the big cage, so she wanted to play with all the toys. But she would beak spar and jump at him to keep Merlin away. Kind of with the mindset of "oh, you're eating that food? No, now I want." Jumps down, kicks out a terrified screaming Merlin. "Oh, you're on that middle perch, well now I am going on it." Chases Merlin off. Anytime she got close to him (even if ignoring him for toys) he screamed cause she was close by and he was nervous. Poor thing. She acts dominant.
Anytime she went after him, I immediately took her out and put her back in the little cage. She wanted the toys in the big cage for sure. She LOVES to play. It was like a timeout for the rest of the day no play with Merlin's toys.
Gradually, I let her explore the big cage for longer amounts of time, still reinforcing the timeout, and reduced it as it got better. Not 100%, but better. She had her first "sleepover" with Merlin and they had a realization that neither went after each other. So that she could tolerate and he could not be afraid. The more timeouts, the more she got upset. She was learning you can stay and play, but you can't try to bite Merlin or chase him. (It's one thing to pass by and make sounds, but it's another when she chases him off in a nasty way).
I was worried they wouldn't work out. Sleepovers increased though. Because at night they are just calm and ready to sleep. No harm done at all. I was finally able to begin less supervision, as there was less fighting and mostly her just chasing him off whatever she wanted without touching him.
Well, this past week Clover officially moved in! She was already spending hours and many nights with him. Less timeouts, barely any. I finally got rid of the temp cage. It was annoying lol. She is happy as a clam with every single toy. Although she still has the baby mindset that everything she looks at is hers, she and Merlin can keep their distance.
Lately they slept on separate perches but Merlin right underneath her perch. Close by. And then last night I was shocked to see this, and took a photo!
Merlin went right up to her to catch some water as well while she took a bath, and she never went after him once. Merlin really tries to slowly come to her to be friends, but she usually just chases him off. So this was a milestone to me. I was so very excited!
So they are officially tolerating each other, I've had 0 safety problems in lots of time now, so since so many days and sleepovers and less timeouts, it was time. She loves her toys. He hangs out wherever, close by. One will stay low, the other high, but they pass each other to switch around with no problems. Just the occasional "well now I want that so you need to move" from Clover to Merlin. But they are very good.
It is safe for Merlin now. Merlin hardly makes sounds anymore as she passes by. I haven't heard anything from either. He watches her play around the cage, (he usually likes to just hang out somewhere). Mostly just her trying to show off being dominant now.
I think Merlin appreciated me defending his timid self cause he flew out while Clover was out (surprising) and I had to help him down and he let me hold him a bit. (He weirdly matches the colors of my tattoo there on my wrist haha)
So that is my update! Gradually happier, successful days! Happy birds!