Hello, I have a Rubino Rosella myself, and yes it is true they are hard to tame. But if your real patient, cus it does take some time, they can be pretty good companion pets.
I do not know really if gender has something to do with their temperament or not, but my pico is a female, she is in her own way a sweet, beautiful bird. I like to say friendly but to some one who's never had a rosella and only dealt with affectionate loving birds such as cocatiels may say(THINK) otherwise
i got Pico from a pet store, she was un handled, un tamed, and had already had a batch of eggs/baby birdies,who still even in the pet shop about a month prior which told me she is at least matured if not fully.
I first decided not to get her wings clipped when i first got her, but that was a mistake, because you need to let these birds out of their cages for exercise.
Knowing she wasn't tame, i wanted her to be happy and id figured she go back to cage when bored like most birds, but i was wrong, had to catch her with a shoe box for she would fly back and fourth from either side of the room when i got near.
So after three days of having here in her cage i finally decided to get her wings clipped, a lot of people say not to, its horrible or cruel to the bird, but they grow back just like hair and today she no longer needs to be clipped. just when you do make sure the vet knows to clip both wings,not just one, cus then they loose some kind of balance i read and it won't even out correctly with the wing that hasn't been clipped when it grows back, and made it easier to practice step up with out here trying to fly away, instead she would get into a protective crouch
After that i practice the step up technique with her in her cage, i had to use a perch first because she wouldn't let my hand get anywhere near her, and still reared down for the perch like she in attack mode, finally after about a week or so of practice for a couple hours a day, she was happy to step up onto the perch
this is when i introduced my hand again, but she still refused,and today still refused my hand, it seems to me that she just has an extreme fear of hands, because i offer my wrist or fore arm and she has no problem stepping up on those. My theory as to why she terrified still of hands is cus when i received her she had also recently had her tail feathers plucked out by some jerk before hand... understandable to me why she scared of hands, I'm sure that had to hurt, i mean every single tale feather was gone that i thought she may have been a lovebird kinda since the tail was gone.
But about two months have gone by, maybe a little less, and now she is wonderful. This is why i say she is friendly in her own way, She is one of those birds who just hate to be petted or touched,(Due to her hand fear i think. tho she is now letting me pet her on top of head with the index finger, then screeches a little low screech when she gets worried and ill stop) She loves to just hang out and around where i am, truth is i don't ever close the cage now, she enjoys being part of the family and hanging about. she will stand on my shoulder for hours even of until i have to get her off with a slight trudge of my shoulder for her to fly away, or from an incoming hand she so does not like. But the key to gaining her trust for me was oranges, After any kind of interaction i have with her, unless its one i don't approve of, i would feed her some orange from my hand letting her know everything is okay. There is much more to here personality like there is with every other bird, but in general she is a quiet bird, she calls in the morning to the other birds when i take the towel off her cage for a few minutes, and at night when she is ready for bed. During the day she'll only screech with reason, as if i come with a new item and she is scared, other wise she just likes to squeak when she is enjoying herself, low squeaks not noisy at all.
I love this bird and I'm sure if you have the patience you will grow to love yours, but also i am posting a link to a video of a little girl and her rosella to expel the rumors that they are bad companion pets! THEY ARE NOT, MOST PEOPLE JUST ARN THE RIGHT COMPANION FOR THEM! i only hope one day mine is this comfortable with me so i can pet her while watching tv or at other times
P.S.sorry for this book of an reply too. my bad
[ame="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MgN_J44tHDc"]THE WORLDS TAMEST ROSELLA PARROT (maybe) - YouTube[/ame]