Cramps (icky details)

[JerseyWendy]

Without meaning this in any hurtful way, Kinny, you are coming up with way too many excuses NOT to go to the hospital. There is more than just one life at stake here.

 

[antoinette]

I am shocked and can't actually believe that you have not see a Dr or been to the ER.

If there is a world there IS A WAY for you to get there !!!!!!!

Kinny please realize as Wendy mentioned that there is another life at stake here.

 

[getwozzy]

Kinny have you been to the dr yet?????

I know you said you and your husband both have medical issues, but this is about your BABY...there isn't anyone who could take you??? Call a cab or ask a neighbor or something- this isn't something to take lightly and you've already been advised by the nurse line to be seen by a dr ASAP.

I'm not trying to sound mean or rude, but we're all **very** concerned here

 

[MomtoPercy]

Yes indeed, Kinny, we are all extremely concerned for that tiny life you are carrying!

I am saddened by the fact that you're unable to get to a doctor. We just learned last week that my baby sister's IVF was unsuccessful and it has been confirmed that my sis and BIL will never be able to have a baby of their own So, this topic is a tender one for me. Every baby is beyond precious - please do whatever it takes to safeguard and protect yours. Beg a lift from a neighbour, call an ambulance to your home, anything!

How are you feeling now? Any more spotting or cramps?

 

[SpotsandSally]

Kinny, you're really concerning us. You may hate the cabs, but it's a possible. You have neighbors, don't you? You can beg your friends to take a long lunch or even the day. We just want you to be safe, as well as the baby.

 

[Kinny]

My husband is still in pain but he has demanded that he drive me to the hospital today.

I know.. *guilty look* All my reasons are partly excuses too.. I just hate using up other peoples time and having other people go out of their way to do things for me. (to tell you the truth i feel far too worthless to have people use time on me, the only reason i 'allow' it is cos of my kids. Which reminds me, i have to see someone about my increasingly worsening Depression. Already had it, then got Postnatal Depression.. So fun.)

I've not had any more bleeding (besides in a freaky dream where i poured) however I've had a fair bit of cramping.. For some reason its worse at night..

I promise you all i am going to see a Doctor today.

 

[crimson]

.....any news yet??

 

[Kinny]

Not yet.. Going to see the Doctor in an hour and a half. They were able to squeeze me in again.

 

[getwozzy]

Kinny- this is an emergency, and in this situation anyone who is able yet NOT willing to go out of their way for you, is a jerk. PLEASE don't ever think that you are not worth someone's time. You ARE worth it. THAT BABY is worth it. Just don't be afraid to ask for help when you need it.

I'm glad your husband is taking you to the dr and we'll be waiting to hear the results- we all want to make sure you and your little bean are ok