Skittys_Daddy
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- Jan 6, 2014
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- Parrots
- Neotropical Pigeon - "Skittles" (born 3/29/10)
Cockatiel - "Peaches" (1995-2015) R.I.P.
Budgie - "Sammy"
(1989-2000) R.I.P.
Budgie - "Sandy"
(1987-1989) R.I.P.
I met a lovely girl about 6 months ago. We had so much in common, got on great, everything was more or less perfect. She didnt like the Parrot though so it was a big problem for me and i had to end things.
If your gonna get a Parrot then you have to treat it like having a child. They will change and effect your life. Id say wait till you have your own place and career and your comming home to him/her every night and you will have a much stronger bond. If there is gonna be times when you wont see your bird for days or weeks then its pretty pointless. They have emotions very close to human and can self harm pretty bad too from missing you.
I know the appeal of wanting one though. Maybe a pair could be an option but they would bond to eachother. I read that Parrotlettes do great as pairs but they may not do much with you like a single parrot would but they wouldnt be lonely when your not there either. They really are like having a real 2 year old in every way. Except they dont wear nappies x
This is so very true. They are like two year old toddlers that NEVER grow up. The thing for me is that the maintenance of owning a sun is actually a GOOD thing for me and my lifestyle. For MANY, it is not.
I haven't seen my family since Dec of 2010 (I got Skittles in April of 2011). My mom and sister are in CT and my mom can't travel anymore (shes on oxygen). I used to visit my mom regularly.
I can't take Skittles on the bus and my sister is a (insert naughty words here) and won't come get me and him to go see my mom. Even though she comes up here to see friends and I've even offered her money. She's an incredibly selfish (insert more naughty words here).
I've never been apart from Skittles for more than 5hrs and even if I could find somebody to take care of him while I'm gone (I do have someone), there is just no way I could do it. Even if he would be okay (which I know he wouldn't). I couldn't go one day without seeing and holding him.
My friends know that Skittles is #1 in my life (even before me) and I will ALWAYS choose Skittles over ANYONE (including my mother, who I love dearly).
My mom is the one who got me my first bird when I was 11y/o and she knows how much Skittles means to me. I've told my mom I may not be able to go to her funeral, if my sister can't bring me. Cause I can't leave Skittles- especially at such a time. I told her this, so I could make peace with her.