Thank you everyone for your kind words. I think what happened to Rio is extremely rare and maybe, many factors played together to lead to this tragedy. I believe some birds do need to get their beaks trimmed. I had asked my vet right after I adopted Rio how I could avoid beak trims and he said especially in Eclectus it is hard to avoid since they do not chew harder woods. Eclectus love toys and love to chew softer, thinner wood and even cardboard and paper toys. I was extremely obsessive about feeding Rio a correct Eclectus diet. My vet always commented about Rio's feather condition and beak color which indicated a proper diet. I just want to point this out because I don't want people to feel they are doing something wrong if their bird needs a beak trim. We can not totally emulate a wild bird's environment and so in captivity a bird may need a beak trim even if he is on a proper diet and has plenty of chew toys.
I think what I would like to see people take away from this is:
- Do not feed your parrot before vet appointments, this had never occurred to me before.
- Have the vet do the beak trim with you present and don't be afraid to advocate for your bird if it seems to stressful for him.
- Lastly, and most importantly, cherish every moment with your bird, love him, play with him and enjoy him.
I was fortunate, I am a stay at home mom and so I was able to spend all day with my bird. He followed me from room to room, we had play stands in every room in our house. He took showers with me, ran errands with me and even had a parrot backpack so he could join me on walks with my two dogs. He loved hanging out in in outdoor aviary on beautiful days. He knew colors and shapes, loved to do tricks for a sunflower seed, played ball with my poodle and spoke a ton of words and even sentences. He was a kind, gentle soul who loved attention and loved everyone he met. He didn't have a mean bone in his body and never in all the years I lived with him did he ever bite anyone. He loved to eat, he loved helping me make the birdie bread, he loved singing along to the radio in the car and talking to unsuspecting people on the phone pretending to be me. Our time together was a gift that I will cherish until the last beat of my heart and if I am lucky we will than be together again.
Thank you for taking the time to read my post, I hope it has been helpful for people, I know writing this and reading all of your compassionate posts has been helpful for me.