I just saw this thread,and read all the posts. It reads to me that you have thoroughly thought about just about every possible scenario. Research and asking questions is paramount and it seems you have done an excellent job on both accounts! Always remember...there is NEVER a stupid question! The stupidity is when a question is not asked.
I have been "owned" by an Amazon for nearly thirty years and had an African Grey for almost that long. I was lucky lol..I didn't do research on either,but had been a 'bird person" from a young boy.
I just read as much as I could AFTER getting the birds
and am pretty lucky that Amy turned into a beautiful,well socialized,loving and healthy Amazon.
This forum has helped me in many ways. I'm still learning everyday from all the experienced,AND newbies here.
I welcome you whole-heartidly and ask that you please stay with us. You will not be disappointed! And I await with eager eyes on your future posts AND pictures of your new baby! (FYI...we LOVE pictures here!!)
Jim