For the last 25 years I was owned by an African Gray. He passed in July. I can't deal with a home without a bird...but can't do that level of bonding as before. My wife and I would like to actually fly or go on vacation (which we have only done along with our Gray). Don't get me wrong, we would never fly again if only we could have him back. But wondering if budgies are good to leave with babysitters...do they bond to owners like Grays do? If we get a pair, will they destroy themselves if we go on vacation? I need to give my love to another bird...but I can't do it on that level again, at this point. Thanks for sharing your knowledge.