This forum provides far greater benefits than wasting time on "perspective" wars. I deleted my two posts and apologize for my tone and a poor choice of words.
However, I will not apologize for my thoughts in the aggregate. If any animal, dog, bird, cat, varmint ..... is in the midst of hurting you, so badly that you think "I might lose a finger" (and that animal will not let go), in MY view, you do whatever you need to do to terminate the immediate situation. Positive Reinforcement does not come to mind as an immediate fix.
We've all been through the bites, nips, scrapes, rough play, etc that comes with owning parrots, dogs, et al - that comes with the territory.
This was not one of those situations.
Again, I apologize for my tone and choice of words and hope that type situation never arises for anybody.
Thank you for this post, I believe that this was what you were intending to post the first time. I can agree that sometimes people feel that they are to blame for the attack and yes, quite often that is the case. But not always. Animals are like people in the fact that they too have bad days or days when they just want to be left alone.
I can also agree that no matter how much I love an animal, I will only tolerate a certain amount of abuse by them for what ever reason. To me, if an animal viciously bites me especially more than once, I feel that animal isn't happy with me. So I would find them another home, hopefully with someone whom they get along with better. It could be just a clash of personalities.