I'm wanting to train my Meyers parrot to use a harness. As I'm going to sign him/ her as an emotional supply pet. And, would rather train to use the harness than carry him/ her ( haven't gotten DNA sexing back yet). He she is four months old, and the first time putting it on ended up in a disaster, clawing and biting at the harness, and excessive wing flapping. I've heard people just put them one and head outside for outdoor distractions, have worked for some people. But I don't want this traumatizing my bird, how have others trained their birds to wear one?