Jumpingtadpoles
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- We are looking for a bird for our family. It's very much like we are pregnant and waiting for the day the new addition comes to the family!
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I have flip flopped day by day between these two. One day I think "I can handle the YNA and my family will learn. It will be a more fun bird, always full of surprises" I love the idea of a childish and smart bird to share my life with. Something that will keep me young and on my toes. Something to grow old with. But then I start to think. What if it's just TOO much bird for everyone else? What if this bird to just MEAN? I have read terrifying stories about the YNA and I don't want my fiancé to live with something that basically tries to make his life unbearable. They are smart. So smart that I think they do know what they are doing, and I am fearful of a negative outcome, for everyone. I don't want to EVER have a bird that has to live a large majority of its life in a cage because it knows how to make people fearful of him. And I haven't read as many terrifying stories about WFA doing this.
I am choosing the zons because they are easy to read how they are feeling. What they are thinking. Even when they don't speak human they are outstanding at still speaking so well in a sense because of the energy they use. I'm am very attuned to things energy, and am really a lifelong pet owner. I have only given up once and it was for the better of everyone involved. We were all starving, and giving him up meant not only everyone else could eat something, it meant he could eat too....
Now that experience was a long time ago, and it taught me so much... And how I truly never want to experience a lose that I still feel should never have happened
So all thee fear send me back to maybe the WFA is a better choice. It sounds more predictable. The wild birds are even more approachable, and they are sexable by sight, so it's behaviour can be easier to determine. So the predictability so my fiancé in particular is very appealing to me. I'm afraid of choosing the bird he will be scared of...
I will be the primary care giver. And I will try my best to keep the bird well socialized. But I so much so want a bird that can live up to my own crazy energy. I feel like a bird in a human body. I'm LOUD, love dancing, am ALWAYS singing, am not afraid to make my personality known. But I also LOVE to be alone, quiet, and reserved, watching the world and how others interact.
This bird is more for me, but it will be as much of a part of our family as everyone else here is. The dogs, the cat, the indoor 20 pound bunny, and the people.... And I don't want to pick the wrong species, only to be overstepping my understanding.
Here is what I've got, I'll make it a score board of sorts. The good and bad for each species....
Yellow Naped Amazon
The good:
Funny
Loud
Charismatic
An amazon (hehe)
Very very smart
Good with puzzles
Always learning
Can occupy themselves at times
Can talk
Love to mimic
Love to dance
Easily excited
Fun
Full of energy
A deeper voice
Enjoy being with people in groups
The bad:
Very smart
Can become bored
Can enjoy pissing people off
Is a larger bird (scarier when the bite does come)
Can talk (I've heard this can be bad lol)
Easily excited
Will have to wait until spring until available
Now, the White Front Amazon
The Good:
Smart
An amazon
Beautiful bird
Can learn to talk(but many do not)
Easy to get along with
Smaller bird
Visually sexable
Available immediately
Even tempered
I've heard they are extremely sweet
Not inherently fearful of people
The Bad:
Squeakier voice
Less likely to talk
Can be shy
I will add to these as I go on deciding. I am still waiting for the breeder to come back from holidays. He won't be back until the middle of this month, so I have I lot of time to still flip flop before even meeting his birds!
Yesterday if I HAD to take one home it would have been the WFA. Today (lmbo) it would be the YNA. I just can't decide. My worry is my family. Not me. I'm in it for the long haul, and am great at coping. I also have made friends in the bird world, am forgiving, and find humour in even the worst of situations. I will be fine but I worry the YNA will be too much for everyone else.....
If a bird was plunked on my lap this would be so much easier. And my fiancé just keeps says he trusts my judgement which is so nice, but DARN IT. I am afraid to make a bad decision! An expensive one with another's lifestyle in my hands, at that!
I am choosing the zons because they are easy to read how they are feeling. What they are thinking. Even when they don't speak human they are outstanding at still speaking so well in a sense because of the energy they use. I'm am very attuned to things energy, and am really a lifelong pet owner. I have only given up once and it was for the better of everyone involved. We were all starving, and giving him up meant not only everyone else could eat something, it meant he could eat too....
Now that experience was a long time ago, and it taught me so much... And how I truly never want to experience a lose that I still feel should never have happened
So all thee fear send me back to maybe the WFA is a better choice. It sounds more predictable. The wild birds are even more approachable, and they are sexable by sight, so it's behaviour can be easier to determine. So the predictability so my fiancé in particular is very appealing to me. I'm afraid of choosing the bird he will be scared of...
I will be the primary care giver. And I will try my best to keep the bird well socialized. But I so much so want a bird that can live up to my own crazy energy. I feel like a bird in a human body. I'm LOUD, love dancing, am ALWAYS singing, am not afraid to make my personality known. But I also LOVE to be alone, quiet, and reserved, watching the world and how others interact.
This bird is more for me, but it will be as much of a part of our family as everyone else here is. The dogs, the cat, the indoor 20 pound bunny, and the people.... And I don't want to pick the wrong species, only to be overstepping my understanding.
Here is what I've got, I'll make it a score board of sorts. The good and bad for each species....
Yellow Naped Amazon
The good:
Funny
Loud
Charismatic
An amazon (hehe)
Very very smart
Good with puzzles
Always learning
Can occupy themselves at times
Can talk
Love to mimic
Love to dance
Easily excited
Fun
Full of energy
A deeper voice
Enjoy being with people in groups
The bad:
Very smart
Can become bored
Can enjoy pissing people off
Is a larger bird (scarier when the bite does come)
Can talk (I've heard this can be bad lol)
Easily excited
Will have to wait until spring until available
Now, the White Front Amazon
The Good:
Smart
An amazon
Beautiful bird
Can learn to talk(but many do not)
Easy to get along with
Smaller bird
Visually sexable
Available immediately
Even tempered
I've heard they are extremely sweet
Not inherently fearful of people
The Bad:
Squeakier voice
Less likely to talk
Can be shy
I will add to these as I go on deciding. I am still waiting for the breeder to come back from holidays. He won't be back until the middle of this month, so I have I lot of time to still flip flop before even meeting his birds!
Yesterday if I HAD to take one home it would have been the WFA. Today (lmbo) it would be the YNA. I just can't decide. My worry is my family. Not me. I'm in it for the long haul, and am great at coping. I also have made friends in the bird world, am forgiving, and find humour in even the worst of situations. I will be fine but I worry the YNA will be too much for everyone else.....
If a bird was plunked on my lap this would be so much easier. And my fiancé just keeps says he trusts my judgement which is so nice, but DARN IT. I am afraid to make a bad decision! An expensive one with another's lifestyle in my hands, at that!
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