Firstly, my apologies. This will be a bit long-winded, but it explains how we got to where we are now! And thanks
@kme3388 for the tag
Yeah, flock dynamics can be a bit challenging, can't they?! Somehow I've ended up with five when I'd much preferred to have had only two or three. But Jem the cockatiel joined the flock in March 2022, having been an escapee from elsewhere whom we caught in our back yard. We tried for weeks to find his family without success, so we decided he'd be better off here rather than being sent to a shelter and ending up heaven-knows-where. At that stage I was actively looking for a lorikeet baby and we finally got Lovejoy from a breeder in September 2022. THEN I walked into a pet shop to buy lorikeet food in June this year and ended up buying a princess parrot, Peach, sitting there with a terrible single wing clip that I knew I could get fixed, so she joined the flock too. So that's how we've ended up with five, along with Fang the cockatiel and Val the budgie.
Fang didn't like Jem very much when he first got here, Fang has always seen himself a bit more as "people" rather than a bird, and wasn't impressed with Jem's attempts at making friends. Adding Lovejoy to the flock has changed that dynamic over time though. Jem has decided that he REALLY doesn't like Lovejoy and the feeling is mutual, and Fang isn't crazy about him either. So Fang and Jem seem to have formed this "the enemy of my enemy is my friend" alliance with each other and are now pretty much always together. Val the budgie and Lovejoy are best little buddies and spend a lot of time together and have formed a little cartel of their own, and if Jem starts anything with Lovejoy, Val is always right there to give him back-up. Not that Lovejoy needs it, he's a smaller species of lorikeet but one thing to know about ALL lorikeet species is that they NEVER back down! Add Peach the princess parrot into the mix - she has fallen MADLY in love with Lovejoy (he is very handsome after all!) and she will also take a swipe at Jem in order to defend her little rooster if he starts anything. So the dynamics here can be a bit of a challenge. And I do have to give them separate out-of-cage time and time-outs sometimes if tempers flare, just until things simmer down.
I had so much hoped that they would all get along, and they did for probably about the first 6 months or so, but as the personalities came out and alliances were forged they have changed over time. And who knows, they may change yet again for reasons that will probably never be clear to me.
@Greenhouseparrots I think you are doing a wonderful job in managing all those personalities and I'm sorry to read that your 'tiel got injured - Val the budgie was once hospitalised by my then purple crowned lorikeet Lilly (she's the one pictured as my avatar) when she nicked his eye in a fight so I know how terrible that feels. Inevitably we will be left feeling like we could be doing more, goodness knows I feel that way when fisticuffs break out here. But the arrangements you're making getting bigger cages should you find your new job leads them to being caged a bit longer are very sound, and about the best that you can do for them under the circumstances.