SkidRowSennie
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Hello, new here, and a new owner of a rescued male Senegal, aged 4 years named Bibi. About one month ago, my husband and I rescued Bibi from his second set of owners. They were literally going to just let him loose outside. Bibi was living in a rusty dog kennel, drank from an old coffee cup, had no toys, rarely any fresh fruits or veggies...you get the point. His first owners, from what I hear, ran a daycare, owned a dog, and the father was loud and verbally abusive. Bibi was attacked by the dog four times, and never really bonded with the owners, so he ended up with the people I rescued him from. He has an intense fear of dogs, and his cage was on the floor...right across from a dog's food bowl and kennel. Obviously, this poor little guy was dealt a rough hand, but he had been purchased from a highly reputable shop here in South Orange County, so I knew he had a good start in life, and I figure with lots of love, patience, and understanding, we can get Bibi off Skid Row!
Anyhow, when it was suggested that we take Bibi, I brought him a couple of treats from my parrotlet's stash. I held an almond up to Bibi, and he gently took it from me. He had the most grateful look on his poor dirty little face! 10 minutes later, he had willingly stepped up onto my finger. We took him home the next day. Bibi bonded with me within the first week, had a "trust, but verify" stance with my sons, and an intense fear of my husband. He would willingly step up onto his finger (not pushed at all) but once on my hubby's finger, Bibi would flap his wings, stretch his neck, and have a wild-eyed look of terror. My husband has been very patient with Bibi, since he seems to be afraid of men. My husband speaks gently to him, moves slowly, doesn't force anything, etc. For the past 28 days or so, Bibi has made very small steps with hubby. A few days ago, he accepted a treat from him for the first time, and allowed his head to be scratched. Now, within the past two days, Bibi's demeanor has changed rapidly.
Bibi thinks I am his girlfriend (started making advances towards me about two weeks ago) , and now within the last 48 hours, his fear has turned to extreme aggression towards my husband. About 30 minutes ago, he attacked my husband without any provocation, biting him and clamping down hard, and not letting go! He has a nasty purple bite on his forearm- I mean- it's a really bad bite. All my husband was doing was sitting on the couch. Bibi was on his play stand, decided to step down, get onto the couch and just attacked him. I wasn't on the couch- I was across the room. Yesterday, he bit my son's ear, drawing blood, once again, without provocation.
I am at a loss. What happened? How do we turn this around? I have written as much detail as I can, in order for you to know what was going on at the time. I deeply appreciate the time you took to read this, and I eagerly await your advice.
Thanks!
Anyhow, when it was suggested that we take Bibi, I brought him a couple of treats from my parrotlet's stash. I held an almond up to Bibi, and he gently took it from me. He had the most grateful look on his poor dirty little face! 10 minutes later, he had willingly stepped up onto my finger. We took him home the next day. Bibi bonded with me within the first week, had a "trust, but verify" stance with my sons, and an intense fear of my husband. He would willingly step up onto his finger (not pushed at all) but once on my hubby's finger, Bibi would flap his wings, stretch his neck, and have a wild-eyed look of terror. My husband has been very patient with Bibi, since he seems to be afraid of men. My husband speaks gently to him, moves slowly, doesn't force anything, etc. For the past 28 days or so, Bibi has made very small steps with hubby. A few days ago, he accepted a treat from him for the first time, and allowed his head to be scratched. Now, within the past two days, Bibi's demeanor has changed rapidly.
Bibi thinks I am his girlfriend (started making advances towards me about two weeks ago) , and now within the last 48 hours, his fear has turned to extreme aggression towards my husband. About 30 minutes ago, he attacked my husband without any provocation, biting him and clamping down hard, and not letting go! He has a nasty purple bite on his forearm- I mean- it's a really bad bite. All my husband was doing was sitting on the couch. Bibi was on his play stand, decided to step down, get onto the couch and just attacked him. I wasn't on the couch- I was across the room. Yesterday, he bit my son's ear, drawing blood, once again, without provocation.
I am at a loss. What happened? How do we turn this around? I have written as much detail as I can, in order for you to know what was going on at the time. I deeply appreciate the time you took to read this, and I eagerly await your advice.
Thanks!