EllenD
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- Aug 20, 2016
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- Parrots
- Senegal Parrot named "Kane"; Yellow-Sided Green Cheek Conure named "Bowie"; Blue Quaker Parrot named "Lita Ford"; Cockatiel named "Duff"; 8 American/English Budgie Hybrids; Ringneck Dove named "Dylan"
Look, I apologize for getting upset with you, but you're still not getting the point at all, and you've acted from the start defensively and like you know exactly what you're doing, and you're not at all open to advice and words of warning. So that's where myself and others have been coming from. Sometimes typing isn't the best way to communicate and I'll take responsibility for my anger towards you, all I ask is that you take responsibility for your pets and actually listen to what we're telling you, rather than going immediately on the defensive and attacking me and others back when we've been trying to make a point to you that you're ignoring...
I understand completely that you aren't a bird breeder, and that you did not purposely breed them. I never said a word about that. The point that I'm trying to make to you, and I really hope you listen and take this to heart, is that being an experienced bird owner and working at a pet shop in no-way prepares you to hand-raise/feed baby birds. And where you are making a huge mistake is that you have admitted to allowing your birds to breed and let the eggs hatch instead of removing them and freezing them in the past and now once again, yet you have taken absolutely zero precautions that you need to take from the moment you make the decision to allow those babies to hatch. You're absolutely just "winging it" and assuming that everything will be just fine, the first time was just what you assumed I guess, and this time you're assuming this based on the fact that everything went fine the first time.
The moment that you made the decision to allow baby birds to hatch and not freeze the eggs, you should have taken all the necessary precautions and bought the necessary things that you need if your parent birds stop feeding the babies or kick them out of the nest box, or if they start to hurt them. Instead of doing that either time you bred them and when someone with experience gave you an actual list of things that you need to have on hand at the bare minimum, you just wrote me off, wrote what I said off, and told me that all of things I told you that you needed were just "EXTRA STUFF" that you didn't need the first time you bred them...
Well you got lucky the first time and nothing went wrong. This time you didn't even provide the babies/eggs a proper nest box, which was on my list, or the bedding for inside it, also on my list, and now you have a physically disabled baby. And that's minimal compared to what trouble you'll be in if the parents stop feeding them...How can you possibly call Baby Bird Hand-Feeding Formula, a hand-feeding syringe, a thermometer for the formula and one for the brooder, and some kind of brooder set-up "EXTRA STUFF THAT I DON'T NEED"? That's where I lost my ****, and I'm sorry for that, I really am.
Please, I was telling you that you need these things ASAP and must have them on-hand from the minute you decide to let your birds breed because #1) It's true, and #2) To try to educate you and to save you absolute heartbreak and better yet the frustration of not knowing what to do when your 16 and 18 day old chicks start starving to death because the parents stop feeding them, or when you attempt to feed them something they can't eat, or with the wrong tools, or you keep them at too cool an ambient temperature and they die because of your irresponsibility. I don't want you or anyone else to go through that.
And just to clarify, the first time your birds bred it was an accident. This time it is not an accident, you allowed it to happen again, and again you were not prepared at all. That's where I'm coming from. You work at a pet shop, yet you failed to buy a nest box, bedding, or baby hand-feeding formula and a syringe, and you tell me they are "extra stuff you don't need". Do you see why that's upsetting? And you didn't tell anyone that you had a vet appointment for that baby with the splayed legs, you simply asked if there was anything you needed to know that could go wrong before you went ahead and splinted the baby's legs yourself after watching a YouTube video...do you understand why that is REALLY upsetting? I hope you do now. I will truly apologize and say I'm so very sorry for the way I spoke to you or wrote my words out of anger, but I will not every apologize for the content of what I said, as every word was true.
And if your parent birds stop feeding them or kick them out, or if they start to try to hurt them, we'll all be here to once again list all the things you'll need to go buy immediately to start housing them and feeding them, and I'll be happy to type out step by step, detailed instructions on how to mix your formula, heat it to the proper temperature and keep it there, how to actually feed it to the babies, how to house them at the right temperature, and what supplements you need to add to the formula if and when their crops stop emptying, become sour, etc. I hope none of these things happen to you or your babies, but they are very common things to have happen when allowing babies to be parent-raised, they happen to skilled, experienced breeders every day, and you do need to take responsibility for your pets, I'll repeat that to you again so maybe you'll understand why you're not doing so.
None of this is meant to upset you or insult you, it's meant to educate and help you. And once again I apologize for my anger, but people who allow this to happen with their pet birds and who are not in any way prepared to take-over for the parent birds over and over and over again really upset me and a lot of others who have bred babies purposely, who bust our butts doing so, who are completely prepared, educated, trained, etc., and who still have tragedies happen regardless.
I understand completely that you aren't a bird breeder, and that you did not purposely breed them. I never said a word about that. The point that I'm trying to make to you, and I really hope you listen and take this to heart, is that being an experienced bird owner and working at a pet shop in no-way prepares you to hand-raise/feed baby birds. And where you are making a huge mistake is that you have admitted to allowing your birds to breed and let the eggs hatch instead of removing them and freezing them in the past and now once again, yet you have taken absolutely zero precautions that you need to take from the moment you make the decision to allow those babies to hatch. You're absolutely just "winging it" and assuming that everything will be just fine, the first time was just what you assumed I guess, and this time you're assuming this based on the fact that everything went fine the first time.
The moment that you made the decision to allow baby birds to hatch and not freeze the eggs, you should have taken all the necessary precautions and bought the necessary things that you need if your parent birds stop feeding the babies or kick them out of the nest box, or if they start to hurt them. Instead of doing that either time you bred them and when someone with experience gave you an actual list of things that you need to have on hand at the bare minimum, you just wrote me off, wrote what I said off, and told me that all of things I told you that you needed were just "EXTRA STUFF" that you didn't need the first time you bred them...
Well you got lucky the first time and nothing went wrong. This time you didn't even provide the babies/eggs a proper nest box, which was on my list, or the bedding for inside it, also on my list, and now you have a physically disabled baby. And that's minimal compared to what trouble you'll be in if the parents stop feeding them...How can you possibly call Baby Bird Hand-Feeding Formula, a hand-feeding syringe, a thermometer for the formula and one for the brooder, and some kind of brooder set-up "EXTRA STUFF THAT I DON'T NEED"? That's where I lost my ****, and I'm sorry for that, I really am.
Please, I was telling you that you need these things ASAP and must have them on-hand from the minute you decide to let your birds breed because #1) It's true, and #2) To try to educate you and to save you absolute heartbreak and better yet the frustration of not knowing what to do when your 16 and 18 day old chicks start starving to death because the parents stop feeding them, or when you attempt to feed them something they can't eat, or with the wrong tools, or you keep them at too cool an ambient temperature and they die because of your irresponsibility. I don't want you or anyone else to go through that.
And just to clarify, the first time your birds bred it was an accident. This time it is not an accident, you allowed it to happen again, and again you were not prepared at all. That's where I'm coming from. You work at a pet shop, yet you failed to buy a nest box, bedding, or baby hand-feeding formula and a syringe, and you tell me they are "extra stuff you don't need". Do you see why that's upsetting? And you didn't tell anyone that you had a vet appointment for that baby with the splayed legs, you simply asked if there was anything you needed to know that could go wrong before you went ahead and splinted the baby's legs yourself after watching a YouTube video...do you understand why that is REALLY upsetting? I hope you do now. I will truly apologize and say I'm so very sorry for the way I spoke to you or wrote my words out of anger, but I will not every apologize for the content of what I said, as every word was true.
And if your parent birds stop feeding them or kick them out, or if they start to try to hurt them, we'll all be here to once again list all the things you'll need to go buy immediately to start housing them and feeding them, and I'll be happy to type out step by step, detailed instructions on how to mix your formula, heat it to the proper temperature and keep it there, how to actually feed it to the babies, how to house them at the right temperature, and what supplements you need to add to the formula if and when their crops stop emptying, become sour, etc. I hope none of these things happen to you or your babies, but they are very common things to have happen when allowing babies to be parent-raised, they happen to skilled, experienced breeders every day, and you do need to take responsibility for your pets, I'll repeat that to you again so maybe you'll understand why you're not doing so.
None of this is meant to upset you or insult you, it's meant to educate and help you. And once again I apologize for my anger, but people who allow this to happen with their pet birds and who are not in any way prepared to take-over for the parent birds over and over and over again really upset me and a lot of others who have bred babies purposely, who bust our butts doing so, who are completely prepared, educated, trained, etc., and who still have tragedies happen regardless.
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