Should I or should I not?..

[veimar]

Sorry have been away for little while, but was still lurking on the forum...
I have a dilemma that you guys maybe help me solve. I wrote here little while ago that I was to adopt a male red rump parakeet, and the breeder (she is not a real big "breeder" - just has a pair that produces once in a while, a very nice and knowledgeable lady) was sending me the pics and updates of the boy. It was supposed to be my mid June birthday present, and I was so excited. But a few days ago she wrote me that the baby had died! She didn't know what happened - he must have fallen at night and injured his head somehow. You all should know how I felt...
I decided that it was a sign that no more birds for me. I somehow felt guilty... But then she wrote me that she has a female who broke her foot very young, and although they did all they could (splint and everything) she probably had a nerve damage. Obviously nobody wants her... She can perch and walk somewhat, but the foot does't work. However she is tame and sweet girl.
So I dunno now... I don't really care if she is handicapped or not pretty - the only thing that worries me is the safety with my other birds. I have another not really handicapped, but a problem bird - Tesla, my budgie, who is a feather chewer and mutilator, and has chewed off his one wing long feathers completely (the other wing and tail are fine). He cannot fly, but I have no problem keeping him safe - he is my lap bird. So maybe they'd make good buddies? Or should I just avoid more birds? I'm kinda lost, and my mind is struggling for the right decision...
I'd greatly appreciate your advice...

 

[LaurenB]

Hi Veimar!

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your baby bird. You have nothing to feel guilt about - you were planning to provide it a wonderful home, but unfortunately accidents happen.

Not long ago, I rescued my Sun, Nacho, who also had a bum foot. If you've seen my recent post http://www.parrotforums.com/general-health-care/53201-new-bird-special-needs-please-help-5.html, you saw what a wonderful improvement his foot has made. Although he still stumbles and struggles every once in awhile, I know he is happy and I've given him the start to a great, new life.

Perhaps with some time and a little TLC, this little baby girl will also be able to improve and begin to gain some use out of her foot.

As far as safety goes, that is always a concern when bringing in a new bird. Would it be possible for her to have her own special "out of cage" time? That's what I have to do for the time being with my 2 conures.

It sounds to me like this baby needs you. Someone who understands what it's like to have a 'special needs' bird, and can give it the love and devotion it needs. Good luck. I'm sure you'll make the right decision.

 

[Blancaej]

I think this little birdie needs you and you have the means to be a good home for her. I like Lauren's idea of giving her special "out of cage" time. Especially in the beginning. Good luck with your decision!

 

[veimar]

Thank you guys! I'm going to see her tomorrow (and possibly bring home). Yes, of course she would have her own cage-free "shift" - I have no problem fitting her into the schedule. I have only two troublemakers - my gcc and my lovebird (if only they are out together), so I'm doing the shifts anyway.
BTW, the lady just messaged me that they gave her some special treatment, and the foot is much better already! Yay!

 

[EAI]

She's going to be a wonderful addition to your family! Please let us know how the visit goes with her and don't be afraid to take a bunch of pictures !

 

[Allee]

I'm so sorry to hear about the parakeet.

I think when you go to visit, this little bird will answer your questions better than we ever could. Looking forward to hearing lots more about your new baby.