one and a half steps forward, one step back :/

rowdy

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Rowdy -Blue and Gold Macaw (I miss him :''''(, ?-10/18/15)
Luna- cockatiel (deceased:'()
Okay, so recently got my first Macaw, a b&g named Rowdy. I've had him for a few days but I've been making a lot of progress with him. On the first day I opened the cage to get a half eaten apple slice off the bottom grate. While I was grabbing the apple he ran out of the cage. Now, I'm 14, this is my first Macaw, and I've had him for less than 3 hours at this point. I knew it'd be stupid to try and pick him up so i tried to get him to step up onto a perch I hadn't put into the cage yet but he started SCREAMING at me. He spread his wings in a defensive manner and opened his beak wide. When I tried to get him to step onto the perch again he ran under the cage still screaming with wings spread. I tried to coerce him with fruits, veggies, nuts...nothing worked. I ended up grabbing the dog carrier i brought him home in, placing it's opening at one of the 2 exits, having to "chase" him out with the perch and into the carrier. I let him out into the cage and didn't try to "handle" him for the rest of the night. The next day I started hand feeding him sunflower seeds and pumpkin seeds ect when I left and came back less than 10 mins later he lashed out at me through the bars when i got within a foot of the cage. The next day aka yesterday he let me hand feed him and i even was petting him through the cage bars. He also stood on my finger when I offered it to him through the bars. We danced to some disco for about a half hour and he even learned a new sound (YES he picked it up in like 2 days). I kept making kiss noises since he got home. Whenever he would put his beak near the bars I'd make the noise or ask him "can I get a kiss?" Then, when I woke up the next day aka today he flipped out at me again. Later today I was petting him and he was practicing his barking and kiss noises like usual and he picked up on something I always asked him...he squawked to me "can i get kiss?". I was so proud of him. I praised him and gave him some treats. I decided to go further, I opened the cage just enough to slip my hand in. I let it sit there for a few mins, he didn't mind it. I started to pet his tail, then his wings then his back. He was fine with it and even let me scritch his neck. All of the sudden he jerked his head around and tried to bite me. I calmly removed my hand waited a few mins and did the same thing again, he let me pet him then all of the sudden he jerked around again. I stopped and figured that was good enough for the night. It seems like no matter how far we get something always happens, like reversing 2/3 of the progress we had made. I don't know what to do. I don't plan on actually trying to take i out for probably another week or so. Can you guys help me with this problem along with give me tips and tricks on how to handle his first controlled time outside of the cage? (His previous owner told me he HATES going back into the cage) (PS i honestly thinks he likes me because whenever i leave the room he rings his little bell and stops when i come back but does nothing when my parents or brother leave)
 
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You've had him for only three hours!? Your expecting too much for such a little a out of time! Slow it down a little, let him get used to his surroundings, just scratch his head through the cage and give treats from your hands. And when your macaw is ready to take the next step he will let you know.
 
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no no he got out in the 3rd hour, ive had him 4-5 days
 
Oooh, that's better, but still he is fairly new, and taking it slow is the best. Just continue feeding by hand and scratching his head and before you know it he will be lifting his foot up in the air begging to step up.
 
It sounds like a combination of him getting used to his new life and testing his boundaries. Typical macaw!! Now is a good time to start setting boundaries and letting him know what is and is not okay. How old is he?
 
Yes give him time. 5 days is nothing. Be patient. :)
 
I'm glad you are here asking questions and doing your research. Taking your time with building your bond will be so rewarding. At your age you will be going through a lot of huge life changes in the near future, I hope you are able to travel that road with your new friend.
 
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I'm glad you are here asking questions and doing your research. Taking your time with building your bond will be so rewarding. At your age you will be going through a lot of huge life changes in the near future, I hope you are able to travel that road with your new friend.

yeah, i know all the responsibilities and I know i am ready for this bird. I already call him my baby and all my friends know that my bird is gonna come first, if I need to spend time with him then i'll skip the movies or a night at the mall for him. and for the person who asked how old he was, hes 24
 
Just take things nice and slow. Given your age and the difficulty of the species you've adopted, I think following a training program by a professional trainer may be beneficial for you. Theres lots out there, start looking into one and see which trainer you connect best with (their style of training) and start there. I think it would make it easier for you to learn the body language of your bird and how to interact properly with your bird so he becomes a lifelong companion. I also think the whole family needs to get involved. Your bird may like you best, but that doesn't mean he doesn't need to be social with others. He also needs to be social enough that if you ever do stay the night with a friend or go on a senior trip or whatever, your parents can take care of him and he won't be an unholy terror. Parrots NEED to be well-socialized.

We do have a member (who hasn't been on in a while) who got a macaw around your age and is now in college (still has her macaw), so it's not impossible.
 
I'm glad you are here asking questions and doing your research. Taking your time with building your bond will be so rewarding. At your age you will be going through a lot of huge life changes in the near future, I hope you are able to travel that road with your new friend.

yeah, i know all the responsibilities and I know i am ready for this bird. I already call him my baby and all my friends know that my bird is gonna come first, if I need to spend time with him then i'll skip the movies or a night at the mall for him. and for the person who asked how old he was, hes 24

He's older than you, lol!
 
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I'm glad you are here asking questions and doing your research. Taking your time with building your bond will be so rewarding. At your age you will be going through a lot of huge life changes in the near future, I hope you are able to travel that road with your new friend.

yeah, i know all the responsibilities and I know i am ready for this bird. I already call him my baby and all my friends know that my bird is gonna come first, if I need to spend time with him then i'll skip the movies or a night at the mall for him. and for the person who asked how old he was, hes 24

He's older than you, lol!
yep lol but i still call him my baby
 

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