I am just worried about both birds. The just swapped because I wanted an Amazon does sound harsh to me. Plus I worry that the Amazon isn't going to be there long either, because when they have children and there is the risk of a child being bitten I'm sure the wife will have strong reasons to re-home. As far as the culture thing I'm looking on Craigslist right now st a quaker near Orlando that is stuck in a garage surrounded on three sides by walls of junk in a filthy cage, and the poster says wife says the bird has to go! And that's here in America!!! I want to save it but I really have no more room money or time....so.if anyone wants a quaker look under quaker title wife says it has to go! It's been on there s month...plunty of uninformed or lackadaisical people playing with these increadably smart and feeling parrots in every country!