echoskybound
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How can you have a bird and let him just fly away? I can never step outside or inside home without checking the cage, the food and the supplies. When I get him out the cage I made sure every window is closed, no ventilators nor harming devices open, oilets closed so no drowning in the toilet seats like I've read once.
Birds are like our children and even more precious, and losing your children does make you an irresponsible parent. You do close the door when you get out of the house, and you also keep them supervised by nannies.
I never said they shouldn't be upset or they never were caring, but they missed a point there.
I can understand your thoughts, and I am glad that Ravennessa found him because she is obviously taking fantastic care of him. But yes, mistakes do happen, and it could happen to any of us. Conures can live for 20 years and we're all bound to make some mistakes in that time. Of course we always make sure ceiling fans are off, windows are closed, etc... but what will happen that one time you accidentally leave the toilet seat open (an easy mistake to make when you use the toilet every day) and the bird lands in it and drowns? These mistakes could happen to any of us. I've heard of very loving and responsible parrot owners making small mistakes that had tragic consequences. Who knows what the circumstances were in which this bird was lost, maybe a latch on an outdoor aviary broke. It could be anything. I think it's important to try to give people the benefit of the doubt when we don't know. Trust me, if I could take someones pet because it was fair for me to judge them as unfit owners, I would have taken MANY pets by now ;]