Hi all! I am knew to the forum and also a new blue and gold owner and need some advice.
I recently obtained a 10 yr old b&g, from a woman who no longer had the room for him. This is the first time i have ever had a bird of this size, but have had alot of experience with them working for an avian vet for the last 15yrs. I hav had him now for about 7 weeks, and as many of you know, it does not take very long to become very attached to them. He started off the first week attached to my fiance who is out of work due to a work related injury. I thought this was great, as he would get quite a bit of attention while i was at work. I work full time, with my hours fluctuating between days and a couple of nights. Well, it only took a week, and max soon became very attached to me, you know how they pick their humans. When i am not home, max may or may not really like my fiance and when i am home, if given the chance, he will ruffles his feathers and act like he is gonna attack. Other days, they go for walks together. Anyhoo, we have built him a 7ft x 4.5ft cage that he can be in comfortably while i am at work because my fiance never really knows what kind of mood he is gonna be in, so we cant keep him out. I wanted to give him sufficient room, as well as many stimulating toys and perches that i possibly could. When i get home, i take him out, and he sits with me for as long as possible (usually until bedtime around 10pm). Pretty problem is, he only wants to sit with me. Ocasionally, i need to attend to other chores and feel horrible when i have to put him away in his cage. I have tried to keep him on his perch with toys, but he doesnt stay on it, he crawls down and seeks me out, which could b dangerous for him and my fiance. I am beginning to feel like i cant give him the attention he deserves because i feel so guilty when i have to leave him. How much time is a good amount of time to hold, cuddle and play with them? On weekends, i hold him pretty much all day and night until bed time, is this to much? I was thinking about rehoming him to a couple who have more b&g experience that can devote 100% of their time to him but i am having a very difficult time with it. :-( i just want to do whats best for him. I also have other animals that vie for my attention as well, so it makes the situation even more difficult at times. Please help, i am at a loss and cant seem to keep my eyes dry thinking about whats right for this amazing bird! I look forward to your advice. Thank you!
I recently obtained a 10 yr old b&g, from a woman who no longer had the room for him. This is the first time i have ever had a bird of this size, but have had alot of experience with them working for an avian vet for the last 15yrs. I hav had him now for about 7 weeks, and as many of you know, it does not take very long to become very attached to them. He started off the first week attached to my fiance who is out of work due to a work related injury. I thought this was great, as he would get quite a bit of attention while i was at work. I work full time, with my hours fluctuating between days and a couple of nights. Well, it only took a week, and max soon became very attached to me, you know how they pick their humans. When i am not home, max may or may not really like my fiance and when i am home, if given the chance, he will ruffles his feathers and act like he is gonna attack. Other days, they go for walks together. Anyhoo, we have built him a 7ft x 4.5ft cage that he can be in comfortably while i am at work because my fiance never really knows what kind of mood he is gonna be in, so we cant keep him out. I wanted to give him sufficient room, as well as many stimulating toys and perches that i possibly could. When i get home, i take him out, and he sits with me for as long as possible (usually until bedtime around 10pm). Pretty problem is, he only wants to sit with me. Ocasionally, i need to attend to other chores and feel horrible when i have to put him away in his cage. I have tried to keep him on his perch with toys, but he doesnt stay on it, he crawls down and seeks me out, which could b dangerous for him and my fiance. I am beginning to feel like i cant give him the attention he deserves because i feel so guilty when i have to leave him. How much time is a good amount of time to hold, cuddle and play with them? On weekends, i hold him pretty much all day and night until bed time, is this to much? I was thinking about rehoming him to a couple who have more b&g experience that can devote 100% of their time to him but i am having a very difficult time with it. :-( i just want to do whats best for him. I also have other animals that vie for my attention as well, so it makes the situation even more difficult at times. Please help, i am at a loss and cant seem to keep my eyes dry thinking about whats right for this amazing bird! I look forward to your advice. Thank you!