Hello I started In this group about a week and a half ago when I purchased a 7 month African grey when I first got him he would not let me come near him but my boyfriend could so I made some progress and he now steps up on me so my next question is when my boyfriend takes him out and plays wit him he is content now when I do it he just wants back on his perch how do I get him to b comfortable wit me on my lap or just out and about