Hehe thank you Allee!
Ohhhh really?! Was the thoroughbred an ex race horse?
I think it is certain horses that bring out the true horsey person in you.. You need to have the right one for your confidence..
Like you wouldn't get a beginner and off the track thoroughbred, because they are challenging and can knock your confidence easily!
I absolutely adored my mini, and then my welsh pony... I then got 2 arabs, and i loved them, but i didn't click with them to absolutely adore and have a connection with and want to compete and such!
So i kinda stopped riding between 12-16, because the arabs were too small!
and then when i was 17 i got Klaatu!
I then fell in love with Klaatu, and then i got Kitai and i was just completely obsessed with them both.. and then Kyros topped it off and i have never loved horses more!
Thoroughbreds, are, i don't know how to say it, but they are very different horses... Kyros and Klaatu are both VERY similar...
But Kitai is a completely different horse.. I need to use completely different training methods... and if you even give him a little smack, or kick with your legs.. You are back to square one.. He will pour his whole heart out to you, but you have to do so much to earn it..
Out of all 3, Kitai has the sweetest nature, and he would do anything for me, but he is the most challenging, because of how easily you can break his trust!
Kitai had alot of hoof issues, and was on the edge of being put down... It was either- This needs to work in 6 weeks or he will be put down..
But he is such a little fighter and he pulled through.. SO!
He has gotten the all clear to be ridden again... I rode him for the first time on saturday, and he was great... He did a few little rears.. But other than that he was perfect..
Problem is, with Kitai, because he has had absolutely noooo training since racing, he doesn't like contact...
So if you even touched his mouth with the reins, he went vertical...
So on sunday, i was getting him to walk around holding his head nicely (Like he is in the picture) and he would do a lap, and then rear.. and then take some more steps.. and then rear..
Now of course i can't do anything, because it only makes it worse.. So i pushed through it... I was so upset, but i knew it was his second ride in a whole year.. So he is just VERY confused!!!
Walk, trot, canter he was fine.. But if you touched his mouth, up he would go again...
I wasn't expecting him to be walking around with his head nicely carried down, but i just wanted him to realise what contact was? But he just wouldn't stand for it!
and this is what he did

Rearing doesn't scare me.. It is so much easier to handle than bucking haha
Today, i went and saddled him up... Gave him full rein, and let him walk, trot, canter..
Ok, Kitai.. You have done it your way... Lets just take a few steps MY way...
and he did...
It has taken me 2 rides ( 2 rides too many) but i have completely figured him out..
Kitai is the- You scratch my back, I'll scratch yours... You won't MAKE me do anything, you need to earn it
This afternoon, i would let him do one lap with no contact, and then we would do one lap WITH contact.. Then as soon as he did one, i would let him go..
We did that.. Then we changed it to two laps of contact...
We then started trotting.. One lap his way.. One lap my way!
We rode for 40 minutes.. and not ONE rear!!!! I was absolutely beaming
2 days ago i couldn't even get him to walk a lap with contact without rearing, and today we were walking and trotting laps without a single issue!!!
I feel upset at myself that it took me 2 rides to figure him out, but i am so happy that i have managed to train him and understand HIS way of thinking compared to the other 2 boys!!
Sorry for that long post.. I was just so excited how amazing he was this afternoon!
Oh, and you asked WHY 17hh? hahaha
I am 6 foot, so where my feet are, is basically perfect for them... See how on each of them in the first 3 pictures.. My foot is basically inline just before their belly ends?
This makes it perfect for me to give leg aids... My feet aren't dangling below their belly, and it isn't up high... Its perfectly in line... Perfect height for me
It really annoys me seeing tiny people riding big horses.. Like Kyros's old owner-
Her feet were so high up, she couldn't give him a single leg aid.. Which is why it took me so long to teach him what legs were!!!
