I agree that educating potential new ānoviceā bird owners is important for the welfare of the potential new flock member. But I wouldnāt want anyone to encourage me to get a budgie or a cockatiel simply because they are a more forgiving species for a novice owner purely because the characteristics of these birds may not actually fit my lifestyle, needs or preferences.
I had aviary birds when very young and helped care for a schools budgie for a year when a late teenager, but my family never allowed me to keep parrots as they hold the belief parrots are the rats of the sky (whole other issue there). Since moving out into my own home with my partner, I did my research into a suitable companion. In so doing my research āsuitable beginnerā birds such as budgies and cockatiels I dismissed very quickly due to their sounds driving me bananas and my asthma being sensitive to powder down/dust. I was actually looking at Ekkieās, sun conures, and caiques because of their sounds and my need to breathe properly, plus these species were far more attractive to me for other reasons of my lifestyle.
This was despite heaps of well meaning bird enthusiasts all but jumping down my throat telling me to get a āmore suitable noviceā bird because ekkies are high maintenance, suns are too loud, and caiques arenāt forgiving of mistakes (to name some reasons. The pressure to just get a budgie or a cockatiel because Iād never formally owned parrots before was immense, frustrating, and quite aggravating to me. In comparison, those few borders who simply encouraged me to do more species research and offered up their own experiences with my preferred species and bird care in general I found far more helpful and I was far more appreciative of their comments.
The end result is we got MÄui; a hyperactive, cheeky, friendly soul who after 2 days being home has already āpunishedā me by refusing to let me scritch his neck, yelled at me, and given my fingers (and ear) numerous warning chomps for ***king up (***k ups include him getting spooked by new environment and being taken to the CAV and having a microchip jabbed into him lol). Nevertheless, heās been asking for training and wanting to engage in the typical stubborn caique way and is absolutely perfect for our home due to being relatively quiet and powder down free.
The point Iām trying to make is that telling propestive new owner to seriously consider and get a suitable bird for them is great, but you also have to consider that a suitable bird might actually be something other than the forgiving budgie/cockatiel. Hence itās very important (and more pleasant for the prospective owner) to really encourage the person to research their preferred species to determine for themselves if that species would be a good companion.