saurian
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I can see you all now, reading the title of this thread. "Oh, God. Here he goes again...". Please note: I don't mean to come off as arrogant and I am not attacking anyone! I love you all.
Hello all. So, I've been noticing some things on the Internet about birds and it's quite misleading and annoying in my opinion. You are, of course, welcome to disagree. Beginner species is something I see get thrown around quite a lot. I understand and appreciate the sentiment, but to me it's actually quite berating to the "beginner birds" themselves. What this implies is that there is a whole group of birds that are so perfectly well behaved and so easy to care for that they'll help you move up to the larger ones. What this does is treat budgies, cockatiels and etc as stepping stones. This is where my issue with this whole idea really lies. If a hopeful parront or a new parront (yes I'm saying parront now) sees the aforementioned in this way, it will mean that the poor creature won't be cared for as much as it needs and deserves. We're talking about taking care of and loving living things, not guitars. I think that the stepping stone mentality should only be applied to material things. Again, like guitars. As you all know, no two birds are the same, no matter what you may be led to believe. Let me tell you from experience. Budgies- small guys. But does this mean they're always easy to care for? No! My Mister used to like destroying things in his cage. He always had mirrors with a bell on the bottom, and he'd have boxing matches with the bell!
Another misconception is that owning a smaller bird first gets you ready for the big ones. I don't think it does. What it actually gives you is a huge repertoire of knowledge regarding that smaller species, and a small amount of knowledge in general bird care. Again, I can tell you this from experience. I walked into this forum having owned one bird previously. Before joining, I already had an idea of how to take care of birds, but I knew that it would vary. I looked around at some of the larger species, and decided that I fell in love with the Congo Grey. What I did next was what a lot of people new to parrontship sadly do not do, and is why I've seen so many posts of people having to return their new friend. What did I do? I did my research! I found out what these birds need, and then I assessed myself to see if I was really up for it. You must always do that. Never buy an animal just because it looks cool or you saw it on TV, because you will not care for your baby properly. Getting a parrot on a whim is exactly like suddenly deciding to have a child one day with no real thought. You quickly realize you can't handle the baby; it's too much. So you put it up for adoption. It really is the same with parrots. Another thing I had a clear vision of the two birds I wanted. Either the Congo Grey or the Cockatoo, and the latter was eliminated. This way, I was able to focus all of my research where it needed to be.
Moral of the story? If you don't want to treat all parrots equally, with respect and care, and don't understand that they're like having a toddler, don't get one.
Thank you! I need some tea now...
Hello all. So, I've been noticing some things on the Internet about birds and it's quite misleading and annoying in my opinion. You are, of course, welcome to disagree. Beginner species is something I see get thrown around quite a lot. I understand and appreciate the sentiment, but to me it's actually quite berating to the "beginner birds" themselves. What this implies is that there is a whole group of birds that are so perfectly well behaved and so easy to care for that they'll help you move up to the larger ones. What this does is treat budgies, cockatiels and etc as stepping stones. This is where my issue with this whole idea really lies. If a hopeful parront or a new parront (yes I'm saying parront now) sees the aforementioned in this way, it will mean that the poor creature won't be cared for as much as it needs and deserves. We're talking about taking care of and loving living things, not guitars. I think that the stepping stone mentality should only be applied to material things. Again, like guitars. As you all know, no two birds are the same, no matter what you may be led to believe. Let me tell you from experience. Budgies- small guys. But does this mean they're always easy to care for? No! My Mister used to like destroying things in his cage. He always had mirrors with a bell on the bottom, and he'd have boxing matches with the bell!
Another misconception is that owning a smaller bird first gets you ready for the big ones. I don't think it does. What it actually gives you is a huge repertoire of knowledge regarding that smaller species, and a small amount of knowledge in general bird care. Again, I can tell you this from experience. I walked into this forum having owned one bird previously. Before joining, I already had an idea of how to take care of birds, but I knew that it would vary. I looked around at some of the larger species, and decided that I fell in love with the Congo Grey. What I did next was what a lot of people new to parrontship sadly do not do, and is why I've seen so many posts of people having to return their new friend. What did I do? I did my research! I found out what these birds need, and then I assessed myself to see if I was really up for it. You must always do that. Never buy an animal just because it looks cool or you saw it on TV, because you will not care for your baby properly. Getting a parrot on a whim is exactly like suddenly deciding to have a child one day with no real thought. You quickly realize you can't handle the baby; it's too much. So you put it up for adoption. It really is the same with parrots. Another thing I had a clear vision of the two birds I wanted. Either the Congo Grey or the Cockatoo, and the latter was eliminated. This way, I was able to focus all of my research where it needed to be.
Moral of the story? If you don't want to treat all parrots equally, with respect and care, and don't understand that they're like having a toddler, don't get one.
Thank you! I need some tea now...