BirdyMomma, don't do anything just yet. You need time to figure out how this news is going to affect you. As the vet said, any damage is already done so a few days won't make any difference one way or the other. Things to consider are:
#1 getting a second opinion or at least a second test done (there might be the slim chance of a false positive);
#2 the virus may take years to manifest itself - during that time, a treatment may be developed;
#3 Wingnut has a
lifespan! Don't think of it as a
deathspan: that's not fair to him! Every creature has an allotted time on earth and there's not a thing we can do to change that. All we can do is make the allotted time meaningful. I bet you're already doing that for Wingnut now? And, you know, he could be taken by a cat or dog tomorrow, or ingest a toxic metal or fly into a window - there are no guarantees for any of us from day to day. Try to forget about the disease and remember that we're
all mortal, not just Wingnut. Enjoy him as he's enjoying you and be happy each day you have together. Lots of us have birds that are battling illness or deformity or whatever and it's easy to get depressed about it if you let yourself. Be strong for yourself and for Wingnut - I
know you can!
When you've had a good chance to put all this in perspective, a way forward will become clear to you. And if it doesn't, then we're all here for you! I wish I could give you a huge, enormous hug and a great deal of chocolate right now, but all I can do is send my prayers and warmest thoughts to you and your birds tonight. Take care!
Love,
Trish XX