Hi there, I am interested in welcoming a new feather friend into my home, I find im attracted to the Ringneck not only by their looks but I love how they sound, I am trying to learn about them before I own one and have accidently (on purpose) stumbled onto an ad on CL for one I have emailed the owner and await a reply. but id like to know what types of things I should verify when buying a "used" bird. also the ower refers to him as a male but also states he will not be 1 until march... assuming it has not been sexed can you tell by sight ?? can I submit a photo?? Thankyou in advance...