bogo1
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Well, I have a bit of a mess...maybe a really serious mess. Please advise me, those of you with experience in this area.
As some of you know, I recently lost my beloved 20 year old conure, Sam. I was overseas at the time working and my husband, feeling guilty about Sam's death on his watch, decided to "replace her" immediately so that I would not come home to an empty cage. Without asking me, he found and purchased a Crimson Bellied Conure. I returned a week later to find her instead of Sam. You can imagine my grief. Antoinette especially helped me through a pretty rough time.
Meantime, it is not the new bird's fault and I have used free moments and taken a couple of days off to socialize this baby and she is coming along fine. Her name is Gem and she is going to be a sweet little addition to our insane houshold of extended family, two languages, two teens (and all their many friends!!!) two dogs, two cats, two horses, two ducks (outside!) and two senior citizen (14 and 15 year old) parakeets.
Here is the problem. I am at work. I get a page from my husband. The sweet idiot has now taken a GCC (he says four weeks hatched but that can't be right??!) from a local petstore. Apparently he contacted them after Sam was killed and they said they would get him one. Then he found the CBB and forgot that he had approached the pet store owner. So this morning, they call, he goes, sees a bird that looks like Sam and brings him/her home AND PUTS IT RIGHT INTO GEM'S CAGE! He called me five minutes ago and told me what he had done. The two birds have been together all day, apparently. I didn't tell him to remove either bird because, honestly, I don't have a second conure cage. I could move the keets to a smaller cage and put the GCC in there tonight (the keets live in a conure size cage) but MIsha is not able to do all that on his own as only I handle the keets.
So, folks please weigh in. Do I leave them together now that the harm has been done? Do I separate them and enforce a normal 30 day quarantine? Do I get a divorce? (Just kidding on the last one. I have been married to the guy for 21 years and should have anticipated such a bonehead move from my brilliant but common sense challenged engineer of a husband.)
I intend to contact the local petstore and try to get info about the little GCC, but am not going to able to do that for a bit as I have used my short sanity break today to send this thread. I will not be home for about 5 hours as I am teaching a class tonight, so these birds will have been together for something like 11 hours. Opinions please???
Barbara
As some of you know, I recently lost my beloved 20 year old conure, Sam. I was overseas at the time working and my husband, feeling guilty about Sam's death on his watch, decided to "replace her" immediately so that I would not come home to an empty cage. Without asking me, he found and purchased a Crimson Bellied Conure. I returned a week later to find her instead of Sam. You can imagine my grief. Antoinette especially helped me through a pretty rough time.
Meantime, it is not the new bird's fault and I have used free moments and taken a couple of days off to socialize this baby and she is coming along fine. Her name is Gem and she is going to be a sweet little addition to our insane houshold of extended family, two languages, two teens (and all their many friends!!!) two dogs, two cats, two horses, two ducks (outside!) and two senior citizen (14 and 15 year old) parakeets.
Here is the problem. I am at work. I get a page from my husband. The sweet idiot has now taken a GCC (he says four weeks hatched but that can't be right??!) from a local petstore. Apparently he contacted them after Sam was killed and they said they would get him one. Then he found the CBB and forgot that he had approached the pet store owner. So this morning, they call, he goes, sees a bird that looks like Sam and brings him/her home AND PUTS IT RIGHT INTO GEM'S CAGE! He called me five minutes ago and told me what he had done. The two birds have been together all day, apparently. I didn't tell him to remove either bird because, honestly, I don't have a second conure cage. I could move the keets to a smaller cage and put the GCC in there tonight (the keets live in a conure size cage) but MIsha is not able to do all that on his own as only I handle the keets.
So, folks please weigh in. Do I leave them together now that the harm has been done? Do I separate them and enforce a normal 30 day quarantine? Do I get a divorce? (Just kidding on the last one. I have been married to the guy for 21 years and should have anticipated such a bonehead move from my brilliant but common sense challenged engineer of a husband.)
I intend to contact the local petstore and try to get info about the little GCC, but am not going to able to do that for a bit as I have used my short sanity break today to send this thread. I will not be home for about 5 hours as I am teaching a class tonight, so these birds will have been together for something like 11 hours. Opinions please???
Barbara