Hello,
Thank you to Charmedbyekkie and the members that helped out. I am really glad to have found this community. First of all, I would like to give my thanks for taking the time to read through my long post and giving me meaningful advice and comments. Secondly, I'm really grateful to Charmedbykkie and those that have helped with chipping in for Gabriel's surgery. Thirdly, thank you for the advice for my family relationship. I have read all of your comments and talked things out with my mother. It wasn't easy one bit for me and for my mother to have that talk but now that we talked things out, she is much more forgiving(Not completely but a lot of improvements). And we both having breathing space. Gabriel's surgery is a success and he is now at home being his active self while taking his medicine. Things seem so much brighter and I can't thank all of you enough for the help. Without this community, Gabriel's surgery wouldn't be possible and my family and I might continue our cold war. I have learned a big lesson after this incident and talking things out, asking for help and making comprimises have changed things so much for the better. I never imagined anyone would read this nor help with the huge sum of surgery fees. And I am glad I tried and grateful to those who have stepped forward to comment, give advice and offer their help.
