I believe people tell on themselves. And you told us in your own words you were annoyed several times. So I wanted to be sure you were aware there are many things one must adjust to by having parrots in their lives. We encounter Many people here who just want the PERFECT PARROT, one that is quiet but loves to talk when I want it to and show off to friends, one that is cuddles, but doesn't mind being left alone 10 hours a day, or doesn't mind if I travel every weekend and leave it alone, one that is easiest to train because I don't have a lot of time to train it, a bird that won't bite, a bird that doesn't scream, a bird that doesn't destroy stuff, a bird that doesn't take up to much space. We get it all..so you were raising red flags for many of us.......but I'm not mad. I do hope you have a wonderful relationship with a new parrot, and it is wise to try and find the best fit for you and your life. As long as you can handle if things turn out differently. Believe me I will be a big fan and supporting as you share your adventures.
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I believe people tell on themselves. And you told us in your own words you were annoyed several times. So I wanted to be sure you were aware there are many things one must adjust to by having parrots in their lives. We encounter Many people here who just want the PERFECT PARROT, one that is quiet but loves to talk when I want it to and show off to friends, one that is cuddles, but doesn't mind being left alone 10 hours a day, or doesn't mind if I travel every weekend and leave it alone, one that is easiest to train because I don't have a lot of time to train it, a bird that won't bite, a bird that doesn't scream, a bird that doesn't destroy stuff, a bird that doesn't take up to much space. We get it all..so you were raising red flags for many of us.......but I'm not mad. I do hope you have a wonderful relationship with a new parrot, and it is wise to try and find the best fit for you and your life. As long as you can handle if things turn out differently. Believe me I will be a big fan and supporting as you share your adventures.
You've gotten some great advice already from some extremely experienced bird owners.
I would only reiterate that you may be better served adopting a late juvenile or adult bird since you have specific behavioral expectations. Some Senegals are quiet, but all Senegals have the ability to be loud.
Don't rule out any species, just be patient and find the right bird for you. That'll save you frustration and prevent the bird from being rehomed if things don't work out.
I have always preferred medium sized parrots (and still do in general), but my feathered soul mate is a 65 gram yellow-sided green cheek conure. I wasn't bird shopping when we met, but it's personality drew us in. After a couple of visits by all five members of the household we brought him home. Accepting responsibility for any bird is that big of a decision in my opinion.
All that aside, you requested recommendations for potential apartment compatible breeds. Here you go:
Cockatiel - life with a tiel can be really enriching if they are treated as the intelligent, interactive birds that they are. Unfortunately most people treat them like ornaments. They aren't.
English budgie - these big budgies are smart, playful and can be very charming
Golden conure - vocalizations are high pitched and don't carry as far as other birds
Green cheek conure - these are also not cage ornaments and need engagement
lovebirds
pionus
caique - listed cautiously. they are very strong willed and energetic.
Ringnecked dove - not a parrot, but an underrated companion bird. They coo a lot, but it's not loud (to me) and can be very soothing. Also, they aren't destructive like parrots can be. For an apartment you would want to find one that has been raised indoors. Outdoor doves prefer to stay outdoors.
I would only reiterate that you may be better served adopting a late juvenile or adult bird since you have specific behavioral expectations. Some Senegals are quiet, but all Senegals have the ability to be loud.
Don't rule out any species, just be patient and find the right bird for you. That'll save you frustration and prevent the bird from being rehomed if things don't work out.
I have always preferred medium sized parrots (and still do in general), but my feathered soul mate is a 65 gram yellow-sided green cheek conure. I wasn't bird shopping when we met, but it's personality drew us in. After a couple of visits by all five members of the household we brought him home. Accepting responsibility for any bird is that big of a decision in my opinion.
All that aside, you requested recommendations for potential apartment compatible breeds. Here you go:
Cockatiel - life with a tiel can be really enriching if they are treated as the intelligent, interactive birds that they are. Unfortunately most people treat them like ornaments. They aren't.
English budgie - these big budgies are smart, playful and can be very charming
Golden conure - vocalizations are high pitched and don't carry as far as other birds
Green cheek conure - these are also not cage ornaments and need engagement
lovebirds
pionus
caique - listed cautiously. they are very strong willed and energetic.
Ringnecked dove - not a parrot, but an underrated companion bird. They coo a lot, but it's not loud (to me) and can be very soothing. Also, they aren't destructive like parrots can be. For an apartment you would want to find one that has been raised indoors. Outdoor doves prefer to stay outdoors.
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