Nolgi
New member
- Nov 1, 2023
- 8
- 9
- Parrots
- Harley, Rei, Coro, and Dante, my budgies <3
Weāve had our parrot for a year now and he is obsessed with us to the point where he is not happy unless heās physically with us. Itās sad to see, and itās become a strain on our ability to function well and enjoy our time with him. It doesnāt matter if heās out for 8 hours a day, the moment heās put back in his cage for a rest, for food, for whatever reason, he immediately going back to ābeggingā to come out. He frequently calls while weāre not in the room, not what Iād call a full on āscreamā, but not a happy noise. Itās exhausting and frustrating, and itās started to make us dislike having him out. Its a horrific situation during hormone season, where heās either sitting in his cage all day shrieking when he sees us, or *constantly* trying to mate with us and getting angry when he reject him.
The point is that he needs a life outside of us. Attachment issues aside, we think more enrichment can do nothing but help at this point. He has toys but thatās just not cutting it. Weāre planning a small outdoor aviary for him that sits right outside of an unused side door (about 4ā length, 4 1/2ā width, height to be determined) and weāve bought a bamboo plant to be grown in a pot so we can harvest some for him to play in and chew later on. Iād like to identify the trees around and hopefully heat sterilize some safe branches for him to tear into. Iād like to know your ideas, both for enrichment activities he can do alone and other ways to remedy the attachment issues. Just to be clear, my goal is NOT a parrot that I can just leave in his cage all day, I know that is neither healthy or feasible. I want a happier, healthier relationship for all of us.
The point is that he needs a life outside of us. Attachment issues aside, we think more enrichment can do nothing but help at this point. He has toys but thatās just not cutting it. Weāre planning a small outdoor aviary for him that sits right outside of an unused side door (about 4ā length, 4 1/2ā width, height to be determined) and weāve bought a bamboo plant to be grown in a pot so we can harvest some for him to play in and chew later on. Iād like to identify the trees around and hopefully heat sterilize some safe branches for him to tear into. Iād like to know your ideas, both for enrichment activities he can do alone and other ways to remedy the attachment issues. Just to be clear, my goal is NOT a parrot that I can just leave in his cage all day, I know that is neither healthy or feasible. I want a happier, healthier relationship for all of us.