A New Bird Mommy

Welcome and good on you.

The first advice anyone here will give you is to let her work at her pace. She's had a rough life from the sounds of it and it seems that she's still hopeful that you're going to do better.

But she's scared to trust and get let down. So you're gonna have to work with her and prove to her that she's safe and loved. She'll come out of her cage when she's ready. Right now it's her only safe space.

Try to be her for a moment: you've had a bad, unhappy life, and now a new person has taken you to a new home and even though your old home was crap, you knew what to expect. But now this new person is new and you don't her her and maybe she's going to be really nice or maybe she's a bad person too!

All of that said, if you want to see what an abused Cockatoo can become, lookup Gotcha the Cockatoo on youtube. (This is one of my favorites: [ame="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S5GIa606m0E"]*SUBITITLED* what the heck was that?! 😂 - YouTube[/ame])

Welcome to you!

Welcome to the forums, and thanks so much for adopting an abused and neglected cockatoo! While you know some basic history, the "baggage" Gracie carries will drive some of her behaviors. Any new bird requires a period of adaptation for comfort, and Umbrellas may be in their own special category!

Check out some favorite links; the first is macaw-themed but applies to most every species!!

http://www.parrotforums.com/macaws/56384-big-beak-o-phobes-guide-understanding-macaw-beaks.html

http://www.parrotforums.com/cockatoos/17694-owning-cockatoo.html

http://www.parrotforums.com/general-parrot-information/49144-tips-bonding-building-trust.html

Many fellow members live with Umbrellas and may stop by to share some advice!!

Welcome to you and to Gracie!
It sounds like Gracie will require some patience and while your giving her time and space you can read all the great info the members here share. Be sure to check out the specific Cockatoos group too.
Good luck!
Peg

Welcome! Hello! Congratulations! Glad you found us and great to have you with us!!!!

Hi, and welcome! Gracie is lucky to have you. Can't wait to hear about her progress

So sad I can't imagine my little baby being stabbed and beat up. So glad there's a happy ending for Gracie. Gracie is the name of my 13 year old lab!

So sad but happy she ended up with you!

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That's sad about her past but that's good that you are taking good care of her now Sounds like just with any other bird she needs time and quiet to adjust to her new home. There's lots of members here that have adopted abused/neglected birds, they will be able to give you great advice!