Aavogaro
New member
- Jan 3, 2020
- 80
- 10
- Parrots
- Fish & Blue - the budgie brat pack
Snoopy - lovable M whitefaced cockatiel
(Pending adoption) Paco - 25yo CAG
Hi all. Newbie to the forum. Only one previous post but excited to have this great community as I embark on my newest parrot journey.
So my title of this post may seem silly but it’ss genuine question. I’ll try to offer a condensed version of my story to explain why I am asking.
I’m a HUGE parrot lover. I don’t think there is a species of if parrot I wouldn’t want to have in my life. But due to financial reasons I’m not willing to pay thousands for one at this time and due to family reasons (age of children and husband’s newly acquired low tolerance for noise) I have had to rule out the possibility of pretty much every species for now. But I have been really wanting a parrot and due to the limited reading I did a budgie seemed like the perfect compromise for me right now (not too expensive, playful, funny, friendly, likes everyone in a family not just one person). So on Friday I made it a reality and purchased a “hand-fed” Lutino budgie from a local, not big-box, pet store. He is probably just nearing the 4 month mark in age and I believe he is a male as there is a faint blue color on the outer sides of his cere. Admittedly he was pretty skittish when I held him. I questioned whether or not he was truly hand fed however he did know the step up command pretty well. I decided that his stress of being in a pen at a lower level at the pet store likely was causing his stress and skittishness. I am more than willing to work with him, and so I decided to get him anyway.
Enter a few hours later when I decided to start researching budgies. I am not new to parrots at all and have owned nine in my lifetime. However I have never owned a budgie so I thought some good research was in order. Lo and behold I find all this information that talks about them being very difficult to tame and generally very skittish. I have to admit my heart dropped a little bit and I was disappointed at the fact that the skittishness I see in him at the store may be who he is forever. I had visions of a buddy that would hang out with me whenever I was home. I have gone to visit him every day at the store for the last three days (they are cage training him for a week). Each day does seem to show some improvement. He settles down more quickly now and is content to sit on my hand or my arm. He will calm down, fluff his feathers, chirp to the other birds while sitting on my hand or arm. Today he even fell asleep on my arm. All of this reinforces that he likely was hand fed, but then dumped into a pen and only handled when people wanted to see him. I still have high hopes that with lots of love patience and work he can become the a little companion I’m hoping to have.
But I am still wondering why everywhere you read recommends budgies as such great Birds for first time or beginner owners if so many of them really end up not wanting to have much to do with you or being handled by you. Guess I’m just curious. Here’s a picture of my new little guy.....Name still to be determined…open to suggestions (so far we have Omlette, Tweety, Woodstock, and Fish (name submitted by my 2.5 year old)). LOL.
So my title of this post may seem silly but it’ss genuine question. I’ll try to offer a condensed version of my story to explain why I am asking.
I’m a HUGE parrot lover. I don’t think there is a species of if parrot I wouldn’t want to have in my life. But due to financial reasons I’m not willing to pay thousands for one at this time and due to family reasons (age of children and husband’s newly acquired low tolerance for noise) I have had to rule out the possibility of pretty much every species for now. But I have been really wanting a parrot and due to the limited reading I did a budgie seemed like the perfect compromise for me right now (not too expensive, playful, funny, friendly, likes everyone in a family not just one person). So on Friday I made it a reality and purchased a “hand-fed” Lutino budgie from a local, not big-box, pet store. He is probably just nearing the 4 month mark in age and I believe he is a male as there is a faint blue color on the outer sides of his cere. Admittedly he was pretty skittish when I held him. I questioned whether or not he was truly hand fed however he did know the step up command pretty well. I decided that his stress of being in a pen at a lower level at the pet store likely was causing his stress and skittishness. I am more than willing to work with him, and so I decided to get him anyway.
Enter a few hours later when I decided to start researching budgies. I am not new to parrots at all and have owned nine in my lifetime. However I have never owned a budgie so I thought some good research was in order. Lo and behold I find all this information that talks about them being very difficult to tame and generally very skittish. I have to admit my heart dropped a little bit and I was disappointed at the fact that the skittishness I see in him at the store may be who he is forever. I had visions of a buddy that would hang out with me whenever I was home. I have gone to visit him every day at the store for the last three days (they are cage training him for a week). Each day does seem to show some improvement. He settles down more quickly now and is content to sit on my hand or my arm. He will calm down, fluff his feathers, chirp to the other birds while sitting on my hand or arm. Today he even fell asleep on my arm. All of this reinforces that he likely was hand fed, but then dumped into a pen and only handled when people wanted to see him. I still have high hopes that with lots of love patience and work he can become the a little companion I’m hoping to have.
But I am still wondering why everywhere you read recommends budgies as such great Birds for first time or beginner owners if so many of them really end up not wanting to have much to do with you or being handled by you. Guess I’m just curious. Here’s a picture of my new little guy.....Name still to be determined…open to suggestions (so far we have Omlette, Tweety, Woodstock, and Fish (name submitted by my 2.5 year old)). LOL.
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