I would agree that it's very difficult to recommend a good pet bird to be someone's first pet bird without knowing the answers to the questions already asked by puck...do you live in a house or an apartment, how much space do you have for the bird, are there noise restrictions where you live, how much time per day do you have to dedicate to spending with your bird, how much time per day can the bird be outside of his cage (i.e. what is your work schedule), do you live alone or with a spouse, do you have roommates, what are you able to spend monetarily per month for food, supplies, and most importantly can you afford monthly vet care with an avian vet, and so on...each bird breed is very different, and each individual bird is very different, so knowing your lifestyle and your living situation helps enormously as most birds end up in rescues or on Craigslist because the owner did not research the bird before getting it.
And yes puck said exactly what I was thinking when I read that you were thinking about getting "a Cockatoo", that tells me you need to research a lot more before thinking about even looking at different breeds of cockatoos, as they are very different from each other, and definitely not a parrot that is recommended to someone that has never owned any bird before...I have 30 years worth of experience owning and breeding birds and I would never even consider an Umbrella Cockatoo or Moluccan Cockatoo, as they require way more time than I can provide them (constantly) and I would never want to be the reason a Cockatoo ends up in a rescue or starts to pluck and self-mutilate, which is exactly what happens every day to cockatoos purchased by owners that aren't ready or prepared for them. Essentially, the larger Cockatoo breeds are exactly like adopting a 3-4 year old human toddler, and if you wouldn't want to do that then you don't want to get one. The behavioral issues they commonly develop are a horrible thing to have to deal with and the reason rescues and shelters are full of large Cockatoos, African Grays, and Macaws.
Conures on the other hand can be a great first bird, but once again the different breeds of conures are very different from one another, so we need to know more about you lifestyle and living situation before recommending one. A green cheek conure, for instance, is a great bird to have in a small apartment with close neighbors, but a Sun conure or a Jenday is probably not because of the noise level.
Welcome to the boards, and we'll all be happy to give you some advice once we know the whole picture!
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