After getting my heart back out of my throat, I had to laugh a bit at getting the ladder out to get to the roof because of my experience.
After a few months when I first got Leo in 2018, I had taken him outside without a harness in calm weather, thinking that he would appreciate the sunshine and stay on my shoulder (and having no clue that harnesses existed at that point). We sat on the swing for about five minutes until the wind started blowing.
Unbeknownst to me, my poor boy was terrified of wind. In less than a moment, he took off, caught a gust, spun 180 degrees, landed on the edge of our roof scared half to death. After some scrambling and panic, I snatched a broom and put the handle against the roof, quietly calling his name and apologizing for scaring him. Thankfully my coaxing worked and he slowly climbed down and clutched my shoulder in a death grip while mumbling to himself.
After going inside, I told him we’d never to that again. And we didn’t until I got his harness a year later, but neither of us were ever truly comfortable afterwards.
I’m still thankful to this day that Leo was brave enough to go to the broom and trust that I’d catch him on the other side.
Learning to always use a harness is a hell of a lesson to learn for everybody.