Well I'm definetely not bothering with the shower anymore. He wasn't too bad the first 2 times but went nuts this time. And now he seems to have lost all trust in me as he wont even step up anymore. Which is really frustrating as I had him cuddling on his back last night. I don't get how a bird from a rainforest could hate water so much.
Sorry to hear you are having troubles. My B&G doesn't like water. Period. Misting bottle, bowl(so he can control the tempo), shower, bath, or rain. You name it, he just doesn't care for it. He does however like to sit up on the shower rod while I shower. And he loves food. So, i thought, lets strike a compromise with him. A five minute shower nets him 15-20 minutes on the shower rod, and a treat after we are both clean. Corn bread with veggies in it, egg, pancakes, whatever i happen to have that he typically goes crazy for. Now, its become this thing where he doesn't really like it, but good things come afterward. It doesn't disturb our bond or his trust in me. He does pout for a bit afterward, but we play games, talk, and make loud/silly noises just because we can. The goal, is to make it a net-positive experience. Now, he fusses, but i still get my cuddles and my buddy afterward, because it wasn't a terrible experience all together. We end it on a positive note.
Dont just take them in the shower and go right for the water. Maybe give it some time were they can sit, out of reach of the water and watch you. Let them see it isn't hurting you, it can be fun, and something you can do together. Take a few weeks or a month to get him comfortable with being in the situation. Mine has a "dance" he only does while in the shower. Its one big giant game for him. Good luck, i feel your pain on getting them bathe!
