I recently acquired my second IRN. I've always loved watching two together on youtube, but had no intention whatsoever in adding another one. As it was, we were waiting for Skittles. Anyway, Clarke was listed for rehoming as a bit of a yeller and biter, and suitable for an aviary only. He was only six months old. The add upset me and I sent it to hubby for sympathy. Well - hubby decided he was worth a look.
We went to visit him and low and behold he came right up to the corner of the cage and made noises at the hubby. Hubby fell in love, Clarke came home. All in the space of 24 hours. Not really how you're meant to add parrots!
Our Henry is a hand reared happy well behaved(ish) shoulder bird who will talk up a storm, go to anyone and can be taken anywhere. He and Clarke get on so damn well it's hard to seperate them, and they now share a sleep cage by choice. But now, I've notice I've had to make an effort to keep Henry's training and people ability, because he's bonded. Clarke is able to be handled a little bit and is improving every day. I think thats just a knowledge and environment thing.
Moral of the story: Even if your new bird did get one with the first one, If I had to work that hard to hang on to Henry's training, imagine how difficult it would be for a parrot already nervous by nature. With time, patience and understanding you have the potential to have a spunky wee parrot in your midst. Don't lose heart, IRN's are finicky things.
Just to clarify, by not being able to leave the house - I'm assuming this is health related as opposed to bird related?