Another thing that might or might not matter at this point is that some ringnecks will go through an 'acting out' phase where their old, well-behaved self seems to disappear and a new, biting-scratching-clawing demon takes its place. This is so obviously related to the hormonal flush that it's clearly just the bird experiencing its puberty. What you do during this time will determine how your bird comes out the other end...
..My personal feeling is that birds do best with an opposite-gender companion. This takes care of much of the hormonal overload and also gives them refuge in another creature of the same species. In my experience, the birds' pair bond has not interfered with either of their relationships with me and I'm glad for the set-up we have. Others will disagree with this POV and that's fine. I'm just giving you my own slant so you can think about it.
Thanks for the response! So far I've noticed a change in personality... though going the other way! Mozzie has ALWAYS been really bitey and cage defensive, and I've noticed she's actually been a bit less chompy, and more willing to step up onto my hand for things, as long as the starting point is her favourite perch.
As for a companion bird, I have definitely thought about it, but I don't have the space for one at the moment, and we're actually planning a move soon, so it just won't work out to get one at the moment
My guess would be hormone related too. It doesn't look like she's being aggressive or protective of her cage to me. She seems very happy with you being there. She seems to be offering her beak like she might want you to 'feed' her as she would to a mate. I wouldn't encourage it because you don't want her to be stimulated to lay eggs.
She's so scruffy!!! My boy was like that last year when he we t through puberty, but they look AWFUL don't they? Like they've been homeless for months! But always eternally lovely of course ��
Just from the quick look at her cage in the videos, does she have much to chew on and destroy? Might help keep her busy and distracted?
Thanks! I'll do my best to kind of... lower my voice when I greet her (it seems to be the high pitched 'hello' setting her off?) and be less... in her space when I first greet her. I actually had hoped, when I got her, that she'd be a boy (but I love her all the same anyway!) because I'm absolutely terrified of her becoming egg-bound, so I definitely want to avoid encouraging that behaviour haha
She's SO scruffy! I was super worried lately that she was sick or feather-pulling, actually, because she lost SO MANY feathers over such a short period of time... but I never saw her actively tugging them out, just doing her natural grooming. It's nice to know that puberty makes them look a little homeless haha!
As for chewing, she's got LOTS of wooden toys scattered about her cage to encourage her to explore and destroy. Until recently, she was very much a 'sit on the rock perch and only chew what is RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME' kind of bird, but recently (maybe it's the extra energy that puberty is bringing out in her), she's started climbing and finally exploring and chewing the other toys. She's completely chewed through a few thicker toys, and I rotate them often to keep her interested.
This sounds hormonal to me too and you want to minimize hormonal triggers because a hormonal bird can exhibit aggression, screaming etc (and in females, egg-binding). Alexandrines begin mating at 3.
Prevent access to shadowy places (boxes, huts, under furniture, bedding, pillows etc). Ensure 10-14 hours of dark, uninterrupted sleep. Limit or eliminate warm/mushy food at this time. Consider the types of toys he has access to (some of the grass shredding types can amplify nesting behavior). Pet only on the head (stroking and petting elsewhere is sexually stimulating). These rules go for all people interacting with the bird. Although it sounds like you are the object of interest currently, hormones can be triggered by anyone. A lot of stuff that people do with their baby birds is no longer "safe" when the bird hits puberty (such as snuggling etc).
Right now, she's got no shadowy places in her cage, and she's still very nervous and anxious about coming out of her cage, even with encouragement, so she doesn't have access to very many places within the house for scurrying off into.
As for petting on the head... she is not a very touchy bird, and so far only really lets people tap her beak. Whenever I've tried to touch her head, ever since I've gotten her, she refuses to let you. Perhaps she's one of those Alex's that isn't very snuggly. A shame, but something I can accept.
She HAS been calling more often lately, and I'm not entirely sure how to handle that. I've read conflicting responses about it-- some people say you look them dead in the eye and say 'no' forcefully. Others say just walk away and let them stop before coming back. Any thoughts on how to handle that? Mostly it's her greeting the day and night, which I can handle. But midday shrieking is something I want to cut down on, because we may be moving to a more shared space, and also it's just.... so loud! haha
Thanks to all of you for getting back to me!