Military is 1 yr. old just started not going back into cage. I didn't feed him during day on his play stand. Showed him a bowl of food and a treat didn't work. How far do I push him to get him in cage. I'm afraid I'll make him not like me. I can't get him to step up for night time. He does know how. It got ugly. I wore protective sleeves b/c I would have had shredded arms today. HELP