heatherg13
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I have a 4 yr old male conure in 'heat'
usually a sweet boy has become very aggressive, attacking primary care giver the person he's normally bonded too, taking chunks of skin out of lips, ears and fingers. he has a little more patience with me, but i also do not let him near my face and do not let him try to puke and redirect him with a hand clap (the sound startles him and stops him in the moment) if he tries to hump anything.
we have tried everything and are now leaving him in is cage (his wings are not clipped, we've never clipped) i guess waiting for the 'heat' to end.
he tries to puke for things, tries to make nests everywhere, and pretty much will hump anything but mostly has a foot/shoe/sock fetish.
this has been going on and escalating for about two months now and we are completely at wits end and are mostly ignoring (obviously his needs of clean bird house, fresh water, seed, fruits and veggies, proper light and dark cycles are met) but we do not pet or really can touch this once sweet baby bird any longer.
we used to be able to handle him, help preen his head and neck, and feel safe to have him out and with us, now we cannot.
I'm wondering what else i can do to help him get through this (no other birds are here in our house)
how long this lasts (is this forever?)
do I need to get him a mate? (they're gonna make babies i don't want then what?)
I'm not giving him up, or giving up on him, I need help with how we can comfortably coexist again.
Any and all advice is welcome.
Thank you in advance for your response,
Heather
usually a sweet boy has become very aggressive, attacking primary care giver the person he's normally bonded too, taking chunks of skin out of lips, ears and fingers. he has a little more patience with me, but i also do not let him near my face and do not let him try to puke and redirect him with a hand clap (the sound startles him and stops him in the moment) if he tries to hump anything.
we have tried everything and are now leaving him in is cage (his wings are not clipped, we've never clipped) i guess waiting for the 'heat' to end.
he tries to puke for things, tries to make nests everywhere, and pretty much will hump anything but mostly has a foot/shoe/sock fetish.
this has been going on and escalating for about two months now and we are completely at wits end and are mostly ignoring (obviously his needs of clean bird house, fresh water, seed, fruits and veggies, proper light and dark cycles are met) but we do not pet or really can touch this once sweet baby bird any longer.
we used to be able to handle him, help preen his head and neck, and feel safe to have him out and with us, now we cannot.
I'm wondering what else i can do to help him get through this (no other birds are here in our house)
how long this lasts (is this forever?)
do I need to get him a mate? (they're gonna make babies i don't want then what?)
I'm not giving him up, or giving up on him, I need help with how we can comfortably coexist again.
Any and all advice is welcome.
Thank you in advance for your response,
Heather