We also have a blue and gold macaw. Ekco the amazon is a male and the macaw is a male. We have a had them for just over a year. The amazon goes to attack my husband and the macaw, when the get close to me, or i get close to them. I immediately put the amazon in his cage. He also will not leave me when he is out with us. Is that the right thing to do .He was not like this before.