Ok, so today didn't start off so good .......my new Birdy Bird bit me. 3-4 times it bit me. I was trying to get him/her off the top of the cage onto my hand , a CHOMPPPP! He/she has never done that before. So......I guess I will just leave him/her alone today.
You should never ever force them to step up off their cage when they do not want to (unless it is life of death). You will very likely be working your way out of this one for more than a day (so please, do not expect her to step up tomorrow, or the next day, or even 2 weeks from now if she is not showing interest)....a bite means "YOU ARE IGNORING ALL OF MY OTHER WARNINGS"-- The thing is, you shouldn't even push them to that point. You should not make them step up unless they offer. Anything else (until you know this bird WAY better) is invasive. It isn't about waiting to see aggressive body language or fear, it's about paying attention to what they want before your stress them and push push push until they feel they have no choice but to bite. My bird would not willingly step up onto me for 3 months...You should not push. You need to go back to building trust and move at the bird's pace. A bite is a set-back because it harms trust when you ignore their wishes not to be touched.
Please don't think you are screwed because of this, but do expect this incident to set you back significantly. You can get back to where you were and better, but you won't get there without more intuition/empathy for your bird's wishes. They move in slow motion and no matter how good your intentions, your intentions are not what ultimately matter--- it is how the bird perceives you. They WILL initiate or show signs of interest if they want to step up. If they don't, that's okay. The more your force it, the further in debt your "trust bank" will be.
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You can find other creative ways to get a bird back in the cage without touching-- I did it for 3 months and there was not a single day (since day one) that Noodles' cage door was open for under 3 hours. She came in and out as she pleased and she naturally went in around bedtime. NOTE: Do not lock them in the first time they go back in on their own, or they will learn this pattern and associate going in their cage with getting locked up for hours on end.
Trying to pick up a parrot that isn't interested is like kissing an acquaintance despite the fact that they haven't leaned in or given you any indication that they are interested.
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Your bird doesn't know you (even if they let you touch them originally). Now reality is setting in-- he's not where he is used to and he is with a new person he doesn't even know. It was all fun and games during the honeymoon. This isn't uncommon, but that's why you have to wait for the bird to initiate.