I am SO LUCKY (long frantic post)

Dinosrawr

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Avery, a GCC born on March 5th, 2013 & Shiko, a blue IRN born on February 25th, 2014
I don't even know where to start... today was involved the most chaotic, stressful, and terrifying 40 minutes of my life. And beware... this is a LONG post.

It started off innocently enough, I went to my summer classes, was happy to receive a good grade back from my midterm that I did and was excited to be done classes early to come home and get some DIY projects I have on the go for Avery. It's absolutely gorgeous outside, and all I could think to myself is, "Avery would LOVE being outside in this weather!" On that train of thought, I decided I'd grab her old cage, clean it out, and decorate it and use it for an outside cage so that she could enjoy the sunshine with me as I washed branches and prepped them for her cat-tree stand.

After spending an hour cleaning the cage, going out and getting supplies, and getting it all done, I was so excited to bring Avery outside to enjoy the weather with me! I couldn't stop grinning thinking to myself, "Oh man! She's going to love the sunshine, the birds chirping, and the nice breeze!"

How silly of me to project my own feelings onto my parrot. How ridiculous of me to think that the way I felt was the way my bird would feel.

After being outside for 20 minutes, Avery started to settle down and enjoy herself. I was happy she was sitting there soaking up the sun! And then suddenly, something absolutely terrified her. I look for hawks, for large birds, ANYTHING that may have been scaring her, but couldn't find anything. Because she was scared, I decided it would be best to bring her inside to let her calm down.

It happened so fast... birds fly away SO. FAST. And there's nothing you can do but watch as the bird you love with all of your heart flies away with terror, knowing you can't even run after them.

As I was taking her out of her cage, my boyfriend's sister had opened the outside door to come say bye to me before she left, and this door is notorious for terrifying Avery for some reason. I wasn't expecting her to come out that door, but she did, and as she did Avery started scrambling in my hand. I immediately clamped down with my thumb onto her feet to stop her, but she started scrambling up my arm. Now, when she does this, she has ALWAYS gone to my shoulder. In my momentary lapse of judgment, I let go. I thought, "she'll feel safer close to my neck", and "she always comes to me when she's scared."

I will now never forget that parrots are wild, undomesticated, and use flying AWAY as a response to what scares them, even if something they know is there. Why? Because their flock mates FLY WITH THEM. I couldn't do that. All I could do is watch as she flew away as I scrambled to chase after her and call her name in desperation.

Thankfully, this story ends happily, but I know very well that I am one of the very, very lucky few who were able to find their lost bird again. I searched for nearly an hour, non-stop calling her name to the point of my voice becoming hoarse. I ran up and down the streets trying to find her, looking in backyards, shouting, asking random strangers if they saw her (you can only imagine the crazy looks I got when I said I lost my parrot). After becoming frantic, all I could think of doing is immediately printing out flyers with a $300 reward for finding her to motivate people to search for her. As I was running back to my house, I decided one last time to yell in my backyard for her.

And that's when I heard that ever-ear-piercing Conure call. I was so frantic! I heard her, jumped my neighbors fence, and searched their backyard nonstop. I called her more, and she responded to me again. All I could think of is how I might never find her despite her calling to me, that she would fly off when I did find her, or that I wouldn't be able to reach her. Thankfully, I found her on one of the HUNDREDS of spruce trees in the area, and on a branch only 9 feet high off the ground. I became so desperate to get her I started bawling my eyes out, frantically calling her to come to me and she looked oh-so-adorable and fluffed up that I was near and she was in a tree - not a care in the world! In the end, I had to scale up the tree, grab her, and then jump down as I couldn't climb back down with her in one hand.

All I can say is that I am SO lucky that she's safe, that she's alive, and that she's home. And that I will NOT be making that mistake again. After bawling my eyes out for the past 30 minutes as she happily played in her cage, all I can think of is that it is SO important to take every precaution necessary when it comes to flighted birds. You never know when they'll take off, no matter how well they're trained. And you never know if you'll be getting them back. :(
 
Oh no, I can only imagine how terrifying that must have been!!
I'm so glad she's safe.
She's very lucky to have such a dedicated human to search for her, and you're very lucky that she responded to your calls. Many birds when frightened will keep quiet so they don't attract predators.
I'm sure she's happy to be back.. Now EVERYONE can take a deep breath and relax!
 
Oh Chantal, my heart was pounding so hard as I read your post! How terrifying for you both. I cannot even put into words how happy and thankful I am that you were able to find Avery and get her back where she belongs. I am so glad you shared your story here - it is hard to tell how many birds you can keep this from happening to by sharing.
 
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Thank you for your kind replies everyone, it means so much to me. This forum is my saving grace sometimes.

She's very lucky to have such a dedicated human to search for her, and you're very lucky that she responded to your calls. Many birds when frightened will keep quiet so they don't attract predators.
I'm sure she's happy to be back.. Now EVERYONE can take a deep breath and relax!


That's exactly right, Ashley... I was so scared she wouldn't respond to me. One time she flew off when she was on the table searching for me when I walked away to go grab my phone... when I came back she was gone and I had no idea where. I called for her and she never replied, and I knew right then that chances were if she did ever fly away on me that she probably wouldn't. I'm so lucky that she wanted to be found by me and that she knows my voice and her name so well. It probably helped a lot that I've been flight recall training her and use her name to come to me, so she understands it as a command, too.

And Terry, it's so true. Just warning people that accidents CAN happen, regardless of how diligent you try to be, is really important. Even just keeping in mind that the smallest lapse in judgment could cost your bird their lives, while a terrifying thought, is really important. We all tend to think that these things would never happen to us, that you only ever hear about them... but they can and will happen to someone. Any not everyone is so lucky to have their bird return... that's what gets me so emotional about this :( I don't think Avery will ever understand how grateful I am that she decided to stay close, but she doesn't have to. I just need to remind myself that she's still wild in nature and it's only natural to fly, so I need to make the proper adjustments to ensure that she doesn't end up in harms way because of her nature. :eek:
 
wow, I cried just reading this!! Thank God it all turned out safe.
 
Oh my god, your story had me in tears! That must have been so terrifying! I'm so relieved that you found her.
 
At least the story ends with a happy ending!!!! I'm glad you got her back.
 
Oh my god, that is my worst nightmare! I don't know what I would have done if that was my Flanders- you are so lucky, it was meant to be. Well done on finding her!
 
I am so happy that you got little Avery back! I was so nervous reading your post! (I obviously forgot the title of your thread! Haha!) I found myself pretty much on the edge of my seat, so worried for you and Avery both!

You are so right. It is so easy to go into something of a default mode when you are interacting with your bird. You were used to her climbing up your shoulder, for instance. Others have mentioned tales of walking outside of their houses with their bird still on their shoulders! It's so easy to get comfortable and just go into "automatic".

Vigilance is so important with flighted birds. Because what happened to you could so easily happen to any one of us. No one is immune. And ANY bird can be spooked. Some are less jumpy than others, but the possibility of a startled or panicked flight always exists. And the ending isn't always such a good one.

So thank you for the reminder, Chantal. And thank you, Avery, for finally answering your poor mother's call.
 
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Thanks guys :) I almost burst out in tears again this morning when I heard her say her morning routine of "step up!" I couldn't imagine not having that every morning, but I'm so glad I do!

It's amazing how out birds worm their ways into out heart so fast and become such a huge part of your family. I ltd hard to believe how much I love her, haha!

Once again, thank you all for your kind words. It means the world to me and has helped me calm down a lot from yesterday :)
 
Chantal, I'm so happy for you that this story ended on a good note!
I know you're a great bird mommy, but this incident is just a reminder for all with flighted birds about constant vigilance, especially when other humans are involved.
 
I've been there. So glad you got her back. You'll never let it happen again.
 
They clipped my little guys wings before they let me bring him home even though I didn't want it done. I would really love for him to be able to fly but stories like this scare the crap out of me. I don't know what I would do. I'm glad you found her and all is well again :)
 
I know exactly how you feel!! When had my little budgie a few years ago I had her in her little travel cage, I used to take her traveling with me everywhere! Anytime I went out of town I packed all andies stuff with mine lol but I was coming home and there's a bush in my front yard that had a long branch and I wasn't paying attention so when I was walking inside the branch pushed up the cage door and she freaked and flew out! I will never forget that feeling of hopelessness of watching your baby fly off and not being able to do anything to stop them! I searched and searched my neighborhood for a good 20 mins or so til I finally heard a chirp while I was walking past a house down the street. I instantly recognized her chirp and I froze! Looking on the roof and all over their front yard till finally I saw her chilling in their front porch preening and just having a grand 'ol time completely oblivious that I hadn't takin a single breath the whole time!! I walked over asked her to step up and she did so as if we were at home and all was well. I just cupped my hand around her and pretty much ran all the way back home!

I'm so thankful that we had the bond we did. And she chirped as if to say hi everytime I walked into the room and she didn't fly off when I walked up to her on my neighbors porch! I had never been so terrified in my life!!
 
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It's definitely a terrifying experience! But it teaches you, that's for sure. Like Sheryl said, I'll never make that mistake again!
 
Oh my goodness, I HAD to scan ahead to see if you found her back! I am SO relieved for you both!! How utterly terrifying for you both!
 

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