Helping the neighborhood Crazy Bird Lady

Roanoke

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Teeko, GCC [Baby Amazon ETA: August 25th]
So a couple weeks ago I was on my laptop, fussing around, and I kept hearing these yells from outside. Being a bird fanatic (As I'm sure you all understand) I immediately recognized the call as being from a distressed macaw, and a fairly close one at that. I figured one of the neighbors had just acquired a bird so I set out to find out who it was and say hello.
To my surprise, the calls were closer than I thought, coming from upwards- a tree! Sure enough, there was a small red shape 50 feet up in the branches. A Greenwing or Scarlet macaw. It took my breath away.
Anyways, a white-haired lady started shouting from down the road as she hobbled over. It was, of course, the "Crazy Bird Lady" who lives very close to us. I often hear the distant macaw cries, so we knew she was there.
We talked for a minute about Bowie- apparently he's flighted and this happens quite often (to my dismay) and she shook her head, shouted at him some and went home. Bowie flew away a few minutes later.

After thinking about it for a couple weeks I decided to go and visit her and ask if she ever got him back (Obviously not just to ogle her birds!) so I did, and brought my mother for safety reasons.
So she showed us around and talked and talked and talked. It seemed like she not only didn't have friends but we were the only people in forever to be interested in her parrots. As far as I can tell she's alone all day. Her husband is in a nursing home with Alzheimer's, her daughter doesn't like her and her son died when he was my age. She's been through a lot and loves her animals but she really appreciated our company and hugged us once or twice. There is a problem, though- being almost 70 and living alone with 7 parrots and a billion dogs does present its difficulties. Her house is a disaster zone. Same goes for her driveway/yard. The kitchen is unlivable! Her birdcages are dusty and contain few perches and no toys (Except for her favorite, the U2)
The dogs need bathing and this kind woman doesn't have the time or ability. I told her with the amount of free time I have, I can come over anytime and help clean up her house, take care of the animals etc. She thought it was a great idea and offered to pay me. I wouldn't take her money though- she needs it more than I do.

What do you guys think? I've been itching for another bird lately anyways so hanging out at her place would stave off that craving. I really feel for this lady and want to help her as much as possible, but how do I do that without being clingy or forcing it upon her? She doesn't seem like the type to accept charity. We'll see how it goes. How long should I wait before asking to come over again?
Also, although her birds appeared healthy there's always the risk of transmitting disease between them and my Teeko. A change of clothes would be my solution but I figured I'd ask the pros.

I'll give you all pictures next time I visit her (I'll be bringing a spare, sterilized pedi-perch for her fids as a gift) and I'll tell the stories of all the birds. They're all rescues and oh so precious.
If any of you lovelies would give me advice or answer my questions that'd be great, I'd also love your overall thoughts on the situation!

On another note, hey! I'm back! :09:
 
Sounds like she's overwhelmed and can use both the help and the company... and sounds like the birds need to be worked with as well. It also seems like SOMEONE needs to help this poor woman out...

Can't help thinking that's gonna be me in about ten years....

WAIT! I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE THINKING... DON'T SAY IT...
 
I know a similar lady who lives near me and who has around 11 Parrots and I think you should absolutely get involved however, understand that when (and if) she passes away you are going to be the person in her Will to inherit her birds . . to me that sounds great as I adore Parrots but your Mum may not see it in such a positive light!
Well done for having such a positive and kind heart - it's wonderful to hear and have fun!

Mark and Blue

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Thanks for the responses you two. (Also I love your bird, Mark! And your accent...yum)
As for inheriting the birds, I doubt that would come about. She is already trying to give me the Quaker though, haha!
Anyways, I wasn't able to get pictures today when I visited her (I forgot the phone.. silly me) but I'll give you all a list of what birdies she's taking care of currently.

Marilyn, Umbrella Cockatoo
The typical U2, she's a velcro bird and so mischievous. She stays in a huge cage indoors and is often on her owner's shoulder. Either a chronic overpreener or recovering plucker, I'm not sure.

Bowie, Samson and Zira- macaws
The macaws are a rowdy bunch, always climbing, shouting, and fooling around. Bowie is a Calico and is the son of Zira the Military. Samson is a Greenwing. The macaws play outside in a small aviary most of the day and sleep in the garage in large cages. 2 of them are flighted and they all roam the bird area and garage freely.

Echo and Elvira, CAGs
Typical Greys. Echo stays in the house and Elvira, her husband's bird, lives in an aviary, often accompanied by Marilyn. Echo is a talker, big time. He also does a killer impression of construction machinery. Beep, beep, beep!

Candy, Citron Cockatoo
Candy, my personal favorite, is a raggedy 40-50 year old wild-caught female. She sits out in a small empty cage outdoors during the day with the door open. I'm not sure where she sleeps. Candy is slow, thoughtful and very quiet. I've never heard her make a peep. She watches me closely. I'm hoping to win her over to the point where she won't bite me.

Drezzi(?), Quaker
This little green guy is very territorial of his cage and never leaves it. He talks up a storm and is generally very good at being cute. If I were 'in the market' for a Quaker, I'd take him off her hands! :54:However he is a problem bird.

This lady used to have TONS more birds, all rescues, probably around 60 if you count the population of 40+ breeding lovebirds. Circumstances (fortunately) forced her to surrender most of them to various shelters. Seems like she still has many of the cages. I counted around 20. Lots of them are not being used and just rusting outside. I'll see what I can do about that haha!
From what I can tell, these birds are only ever handled by the lady (Who we shall refer to as Mrs. H from here on out) and are in dire need of enrichment and socialization.
Any ideas that won't overstep my welcome or cost me a finger?
 
Wow! That's a tough one! Let's reverse engineer this one. Birds are naturally incredibly curious especially if you are busy ignoring them! When they've got your attention, they'll play up something rotten so . .

Get some toys to play with (paper, cardboard, toilet rolls, old (clean) cream tubs etc. etc and start building a space ship :) (yes I know you're not 5) but do it convincingly and make sure you are engrossed . . Position yourself in view of the Parrot you wish to establish contact with, leave their cage open and do NOT make eye contact - just concentrate on the spaceship.

Believe me, 10 minutes into the procedure they'll be climbing all over you to get to it and rip bits off (the spaceship not you) and so the relationship will begin!!

Good luck - once had a super Citron Crested myself - wonderful.

Mark
 

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