I am doing more and more research, and am looking at eclectus now. I have so many choices of parrots it's so hard to choose! I also hear that the species personality is considered "blunt, dull" and they do not form strong bonds i doubt this is true, is it?. I prefer the female birds (more attracted to a male owner) as the personality is much more spicy, and would bond better than a male. Which species would you recommend? Vosmaeri, red-sided, or solomon island and why? I have a poll above this thread for your convenience. In your post include why you voted for the species. Have fun and thanks for helping me out