Sarahtheumbrella
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- Jun 22, 2012
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- Parrots
- a beautiful umbrella cockatoo
Well, first off hello. I am new to this site, but know that everyone here is very kind and helpful.
I have quite a few problems with my nine year old umbrella cockatoo Sarah.
Problem one:
My family and I cover her up at about 9 o clock every night. She goes to sleep without a fit (next to the occasional squawk or two). But she wakes up super early at 6-7 am. This gets frustrating to everyone especially on weekends when we are trying to rest up.
This was not a problem until we moved her into her bigger cage and used several bed sheets to cover her HUGE cage instead of the custom sheet from her old cage. I wonder if maybe the material we cover her with is too thin. Then the sun rising wakes her up. I worry because now in summer she screams earlier every morning. I find my self "walking on egg shells" whenever I am awake before she is so I don't wake her.
Problem two:
She also has some separation issues, but I can handle it. I understand that they scream in morning and afternoon, but how long should they scream in afternoon?I find Sarah non-stop screaming from 6-9pm. Even when I am right in front of her. Is this too long?P.S. this is what gets everyone in my family mad, because we all are trying to finish work at this time.
Problem three:
Biting. I am terrified of handling her. She seems to like my dad best, but my family(except me) has no time for her. I am the one with her the whole day(next to school). I clean her cage, and change her food, etc. She is not motivated by anything next to attention, but I am too afraid for physical contact. She is a phobic bird and therefore gets overstimulated very easily. She will be fine one moment and then suddenly strike, and strike rather hard. I have been bitten every time I have attempted to handle her, and it just really discourages me. This is also why I hesitate to train her.
She not a mean bird at all though. She cuddles on the sofa with my dad whenever he takes out the time. She eats dinner with our family from a perch we put outside her cage. We often give her the bird edible parts of out meals (bread, fruits, veggies)although she doesn't seem to like any of it.
Any tips to how i can get over my fear of her first. I feel maybe if I can interact more and slowly introduce her to other rooms all the other problems will dissipate.
I am fine petting her when she is inside the cage. She seems to feel safer there. So she rarely gets overexcited. Sometimes we just sit together at watch TV while i pet her through the bars. Sometimes she falls asleep while i pet her.
My family all hate her, but even though she is a pain I love her. I cant imagine life without her. When I asked my neighbors about her screaming,they say that she annoys them, but not seriously. They are just four-six year old kids (their parents do not understand English) and they can only hear her when they play outside, but they elderly couple to the left say they never hear her.
I always feel like a horrible owner. This is my first cockatoo, or pet for a matter-of-fact,and I really get frustrated sometimes being the only one taking responsibility.
Sorry for asking soo many questions. I thank anyone who took the time to help me.
Thank you soooo much in advance.
I have quite a few problems with my nine year old umbrella cockatoo Sarah.
Problem one:
My family and I cover her up at about 9 o clock every night. She goes to sleep without a fit (next to the occasional squawk or two). But she wakes up super early at 6-7 am. This gets frustrating to everyone especially on weekends when we are trying to rest up.
This was not a problem until we moved her into her bigger cage and used several bed sheets to cover her HUGE cage instead of the custom sheet from her old cage. I wonder if maybe the material we cover her with is too thin. Then the sun rising wakes her up. I worry because now in summer she screams earlier every morning. I find my self "walking on egg shells" whenever I am awake before she is so I don't wake her.
Problem two:
She also has some separation issues, but I can handle it. I understand that they scream in morning and afternoon, but how long should they scream in afternoon?I find Sarah non-stop screaming from 6-9pm. Even when I am right in front of her. Is this too long?P.S. this is what gets everyone in my family mad, because we all are trying to finish work at this time.
Problem three:
Biting. I am terrified of handling her. She seems to like my dad best, but my family(except me) has no time for her. I am the one with her the whole day(next to school). I clean her cage, and change her food, etc. She is not motivated by anything next to attention, but I am too afraid for physical contact. She is a phobic bird and therefore gets overstimulated very easily. She will be fine one moment and then suddenly strike, and strike rather hard. I have been bitten every time I have attempted to handle her, and it just really discourages me. This is also why I hesitate to train her.
She not a mean bird at all though. She cuddles on the sofa with my dad whenever he takes out the time. She eats dinner with our family from a perch we put outside her cage. We often give her the bird edible parts of out meals (bread, fruits, veggies)although she doesn't seem to like any of it.
Any tips to how i can get over my fear of her first. I feel maybe if I can interact more and slowly introduce her to other rooms all the other problems will dissipate.
I am fine petting her when she is inside the cage. She seems to feel safer there. So she rarely gets overexcited. Sometimes we just sit together at watch TV while i pet her through the bars. Sometimes she falls asleep while i pet her.
My family all hate her, but even though she is a pain I love her. I cant imagine life without her. When I asked my neighbors about her screaming,they say that she annoys them, but not seriously. They are just four-six year old kids (their parents do not understand English) and they can only hear her when they play outside, but they elderly couple to the left say they never hear her.
I always feel like a horrible owner. This is my first cockatoo, or pet for a matter-of-fact,and I really get frustrated sometimes being the only one taking responsibility.
Sorry for asking soo many questions. I thank anyone who took the time to help me.
Thank you soooo much in advance.