I'm leaning a little towards Caiques right now. However College looms in the future and while I have a sister who is willing to commit while I'm away I still don't want to leave one behind even for a year or two. Yet I can't go bird less until afterwards it simply is not possible. I can't live without one. What should I do?
You're going to hate me for saying this, but I'd try to wait. TRUST ME, I know how awful that feels. My cockatiel passed away over summer break one year while I was in college, and after the pain subsided, I wanted SO SO badly to replace her. It was like a gaping hole in my heart, and I couldn't imagine not having a bird, even though I'd be at college most of the year.
But it IS possible to get by. If you're going to be living in dorms, then you almost certainly can't bring the bird with you (though there are rare exceptions - still, you don't want to be choosing colleges based on which will take pets. Bad idea). Even if you can afford an apartment (and your school doesn't require you to live on campus for a while like many do), you'll likely have roommates to deal with. And not all apartments take pets anyway.
So that means leaving your bird behind. And THAT means having to ditch an animal that is already strongly bonded to you. That's not a good thing for any bird. It can work, though, I'll admit. My cockatiel was ALWAYS delighted to see me. They can be pretty forgiving, though.
And you'd have to hope your bird didn't just bond to your sister instead.
Would your sister be financially responsible for the bird during all that time? And what about after college? Would you be certain you could find income and a pet-safe apartment after that? Life changes frequently at this age.
I really think you and your future pet will be happier starting your lives together in a more stable circumstance. It doesn't do the animal any favors to come into your life if you have to leave it behind so soon.
There's no easy answers here. It kind of looks like you'll have to choose between getting a bird and leaving it behind, or waiting even though it's hard. I think waiting is the healthier choice, even though I know how bad it sucks.